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postr/StutterAug 23, 2019
5 points

Anybody experiencing with voluntary/pseudo stuttering?

Anybody experiencing with voluntary/pseudo stuttering? 28 m, stutterer since 5. I can read and talk fluently when alone, but experiencing anxiety and fear of judgment when with people. Went to an S...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2019
1 points

I tried that for a little bit. Honestly if you don't mind having to go by your middle name and if it helps in the long run with your speech then go for it!...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2019
5 points

The best and worst thing I've found for my stutter is marijuana. At the right dose I'm calm and I can speak clearly, but if I take too much I'm useless. If you have a stutter into your adulthood then...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Identity & Self-PerceptionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2019
3 points

I've seriously considered going by either my middle name, surname, or a nickname. However none of those still feels like 'me' whilst also being appreciably easier to say, so I've stuck with my first n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 22, 2019
15 points

Starting university and can’t say my own name

Starting university and can’t say my own name Hi there, So I’m 19 and I’ve stuttered ever since I can remember. Throughout my life my stutter has gone through various levels of severity in which there...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2019
4 points

I have stuttered since I could talk as well. Worse when I was younger but Ive gotten quite good at hiding it now that I’m 27. I have a 3 year old son who is talking now and boy is his stutter bad exac...

Identity & DisabilityParent & CaregiverCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionEarly Concern & OnsetValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterAug 22, 2019
18 points

I go by my middle name because I can’t say my first name without stuttering lmao

I go by my middle name because I can’t say my first name without stuttering lmao since like elementary school I have. I remember basically crying and begging my parents to let me. it was pretty much i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 21, 2019
4 points

Moving in to college on Saturday

Moving in to college on Saturday Hi everyone! Like the title says, I move in to my college on Saturday, and with that brings a whole new environment. Now, I’ve had my stutter since fourth grade or si...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
1 points

i think you are masking your problems with the fact that you stutter aswell, you talk as if stuttering caused all these issues i mean think about it, if stuttering really caused all that wont every...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 21, 2019
44 points

New here

New here Just wanted to say that this sub seems really nice. I stuttered when I was a kid and when i hit my late teens it came back for some reason. Now I'm 22 and I'm just trying to deal with it as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
4 points

as an introvert, i’m quite reserved and i tend not to mention/talk about private stuff (feelings, stuttering etc.) to others. but he (my friend) was the ‘click’ that made me feel comfortable in talkin...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
6 points

That's so awesome! I am happy that you consouled him and had the courage to talk to him. A similar experience happened to me at work: I found another girl who stutters. We were in the same training ...

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Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterAug 20, 2019
26 points

Opened up to a friend recently

Opened up to a friend recently Some context here: I (16, M) joined my school’s overseas study tour, and on the first night, we did self introductions (the part I vehemently disliked). Obviously, I ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterAug 20, 2019
50 points

A Frequently Asked Question

A Frequently Asked Question I was at a doctor's appointment and when I approached the front desk, the clerk asked "Name please". By her tone, I knew she was not having a good day. I was using diaphr...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
1 points

Hey I’m 23F and I stutter too! I know just how you feel. It’s hard not to feel alone and isolated. I feel that way a lot and sometimes I just wanna quit and be a hermit. But what I’m realizing is tha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
2 points

Thank you man, I understand that it's in my hands to change my view on stuttering, and I'm trying, despite me stressing about it. I do believe as you grow older, people are a lot more thoughtful and...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
2 points

26M here. It's not easy living with a stutter, but I know you can get through this. The only thing you have to do is change your mindset and understand that people will not judge you based on your stu...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
1 points

Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement, and I completely agree with you that the issue lies greatly in stress and anxiety and I think the bad habit of stuttering without trying to fix...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2019
1 points

Hi! I am 20f with a stutter and I know exactly what are feeling because it's the exact same way I am. I absolutely hate it. People think I am cold and standoffish but I am really just terrified of loo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 19, 2019
11 points

Stammering affects the way other perceive me.

Stammering affects the way other perceive me. Hello, I am 22 year old male with a stammer. I have been doing a lot of thinking today about how much my stammer has affected the way I come across to to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more