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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
1 points

Started when I was 7 or 8 after suffering from a lot of abuse from my mom and her ex. Nobody did anything and she kept telling me I have to work to get her to set up my own speech therapy. Lived with ...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
2 points

Thank you for sharing your story and your experience! That is great advice. I have definitely been trying to improve her self confidence. She is very insecure and shy. I also want her to know tha...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
6 points

I was pretty shocked when you wrote you're 14 at the end. You're clearly very intelligent and mature, especially for a 14 year old. You articulate the struggle so well and if you can write and think l...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
4 points

Please dont give up on your dreams!!! I am a 33 years old female and i work in healthcare. Some days my stuttering is flawless and other days, it is a nightmare. The most important thing is to love yo...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
1 points

Thank you so much for sharing your parents' words! I really like their advice to focus on the person and the conversation. The anxiety piece has been huge for him. I've partnered with his therapist an...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
2 points

Wow you’re right about that. I’m constantly in my own head and probably do make my stuttering even worse. And thank you! I’m glad your stuttering is getting better too! :)...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

I hope it works out for you, brother or sister! People at work would think I'm on drugs, I'm sure, but for all the drug testing we do because military. Sometimes a motherfucker just needs to be high ...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
15 points

For me, my mental space has a much greater impact on my speech than the mechanics of how I actually try to speak. Things like getting enough sleep, eating right and exercising have a positive impact o...

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Mindfulness & BreathingHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2020
2 points

I am so happy for you! I've really been considering it but wanted to do my research first and ask others so this really gives me hope. Can I inbox you for more questions?...

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postr/StutterJun 21, 2020
45 points

I’m proud of myself

I’m proud of myself I started stuttering as a young kid, I have no idea what caused it, and as a immigrant kid learning two languages it made life hell for me. I used to not be able to talk to anyone ...

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commentr/StutterJun 21, 2020
3 points

I would've done it a long time ago, but I'm a muslim and we believe that if you commit suicide you'll go straight to hell. I even asked my teacher when I was 7 if I committed suicide now will I go to...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2020
2 points

I used to feel this way. Take it a day at a time bud. People always say this but feel free to msg me. Some days will be bad, others horrible. But there's always those good days that make you feel amaz...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2020
8 points

I can understand. I get these thoughts almost every other day . But i just cannot imagine how it would affect my parents. They have given me whatever they could. Take it one day at a time. Consult a ...

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postr/StutterJun 20, 2020
18 points

I stuttered severely in the last day of a program while giving feedback (which I never do usually) and some nice and patient people motivated me a lot. Stuffs like these keeps me going!

I stuttered severely in the last day of a program while giving feedback (which I never do usually) and some nice and patient people motivated me a lot. Stuffs like these keeps me going! [deleted]...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

I’m sorry this even has to be a question. I’m gonna say, as a woman, I wouldn’t judge that AT ALL. Not even a little. The women that count in your life, will not care. And turn it around and think abo...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

If you haven’t tried speech therapy you should definitely give it a bash, you’re surrounded with people who accept you for who you are and don’t care for your speech impairment. It helped me a lot at ...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

It is a thousand times easier said than done. It is hard. But it will not ever get better by not talking to people, so there is no choice but to do it really. Of course stuttering in front of people ...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

You sound young. We are the hardest on ourselves when we stutter, which only makes stuttering worse. Even if others are harsh to us because of stuttering, we are prone to internalizing others’ reactio...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

I totally understand, I’m in/have been in similar situations. It sucks but the best way to find someone is to just get out there and keep going strong. Some people are understanding and some are just ...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

This is good advice, and this is exactly how it is. Don't expect compassion from people because you stutter, it may feel unfair sometimes but I've learned that the world isn't always kind and doesn't...

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