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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

This is going to be unpopular, but if I got offended every time a girl smiled at my stutter I would have no girls like me. You stutter. People (girls, namely) are going to smile, they might even cra...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
5 points

Having a stutter is a medical disability and I can't understand why we are not taken like that from childhood. I CAN'T do a speech in front of whole class, do presentations, reading outloud. I will tr...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Access & RightsSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

I have the same problem but taking it as a big deal brings in anxiety which ultimately makes it worse for overall life in general, just think like it is what it is and try speech therapy if you have n...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice RequestsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
5 points

Probably because you’re putting off bad vibes. People don’t care if you stutter, they just want to hire someone who’s going to do the work and be tolerable to be around. If you’re giving off negative ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
4 points

>Have you ever been to Walmart? Huh? Yes in Walmart they stress on how you need to have good people skills. ​ >Maybe try applying in person and smile as much as you can. I'm not ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
5 points

i know its hard for a woman to understand , but men are simple : simply talk to him. Just say hey i am here for you , i can see that its bothering you , i want to know what can i do to make you feel b...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterAug 21, 2022
27 points

Supporting someone with a stutter?

Supporting someone with a stutter? So, I myself don’t stutter, but I recently started dating someone who does. We have great chemistry together and things are going quite well, but at times I can tell...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice OfferedAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
10 points

I empathize completely. When it comes to hourly jobs, customer service/some form of consistent human interaction is a huge part of the most widely available jobs. I haven't had any luck with recruiter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
10 points

Try to focus on reducing anxiety. When I notice my stutter is worse then usual I take ten minutes a day to just kinda meditate. Sit somewhere quiet and focus on breathing slowly and relaxing. It doesn...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
3 points

Worst you can do is avoid situations and start doing avoidance behaviors. Will just make the anxiety worse when you have to speak. Go on the offensive and start challenging yourself and pushing your c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

It is true that we **may** only have a *predisposition* towards stuttering, although I don't think its fair to say that it can triggering this predisposition can entirely be avoided. Twin studies seem...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
6 points

Learning how to approach conversations not from a stutterers mindset. Dont equate a successful interaction with "i was/wasnt fluent". Accept the moments of fear and realize its the fear that condi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

I've been in a similar situation for years now, but about two months ago I started some pretty intensive (four 45-minutes sessions a week) speech therapy and its actually been helping. For me, if I'm ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

I basically said the same thing. Once your brain makes the neural pathways for anxiety/fear, they can take over in all situations. This is an extreme example, but a military vet who gets panic att...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

Its not that simple. A lot of my anxiety comes from bad past social experiences, of which my stutter played at least a moderate role in the outcome. And even when I'm not anxious (with family and clo...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

I know I’m not supposed to say this here and this may be deleted, but professional therapy along with doctor prescribed, non-habit forming pharmaceuticals targeted to treat anxiety is a very helpful w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

It's not easy, is it? Some days, I can easily not give a Fk, but other days, I'm an anxious mess. It comes in waves. Some days, I'm anxious to the point that I can't sleep because my anxiety is ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

Hi there. I'm a Solution Architect, and I'm in meetings most of the day, every day. I need to speak in meetings when called upon. Yes, I do block / stutter from time to time. I don't think anyo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 20, 2022
15 points

worried about finding work

worried about finding work i’m still pretty young, and i’ve been thinking about getting my first job soon. the only problem is that i stutter quite a bit, and a lot more when i’m put under any kind of...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

This is where the work of a good speech therapist comes in. It's hard to find one who knows how to help you face your fears in an effective way, but the bottomije is you're going to have to find peopl...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more