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postr/StutterSep 9, 2022
19 points

Stuttering and self confidence

Stuttering and self confidence 19,F Imma keep it short. I used to stutter as a child, sorta got over it when i was 9-10. I was not put into any speech therapy or any thing, but my mom did send me to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
1 points

We’ll I shouldn’t have said “avoid”, but rather to become aware of them and work on not fear them. So we identify the sounds that caused the most blocks, which for me were the plosives. Then we would ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesExperiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
1 points

You are welcome. But like if you want to overcome waterphobia, the best way is to outright plunge into the water. I know it is a very hard step for you to make since you are holding negative opinions...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMedicalization / NeurodiversityAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
2 points

Hmm I've never really thought about it to be honest. I'm not that easygoing but I've definitely mellowed throughout my twenties. I think everyone with a stutter can suffer from pretty severe episodes ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
2 points

Worst moments in my life regarding the stutter weirdly aren't huge moments but sort of a myriad of minor incidents and people's reaction to them. trying to ask for a bus ticket, trying to order food, ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
1 points

All you can do is your best. Simplistic I know, but it’s the truth. I hear you when you talk about blocking on that first dreaded word. I have found deep breathing exercises can be helpful before a or...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
5 points

I can’t imagine anyone saying that “you just have to want to be fluent enough” unless they don’t have a stutter themselves. That sounds a lot like my brother and dad when I was young and they’d tell m...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
1 points

would you say you are naturally easygoing in temperament? do you feel someone more neurotic who stutters might exit with a different set of experiences from the dating scene?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 8, 2022
6 points

Has any of y’all ever been in a play

Has any of y’all ever been in a play I joined encore,ast hear they did Alice in wonderland and I found it so kool. I would like to act but I know I probably can’t. She. I bring this up to friends they...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionRoles & PerformanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 8, 2022
2 points

Today I had to record something for a club and I got stuck so much. My main issue is my speech blocks that I can’t seem to improve on. The funny thing was that the word I did think I was gonna stammer on came perfectly. I got so anxious and feel so bad now. Any type of advice would be appreciated.

Today I had to record something for a club and I got stuck so much. My main issue is my speech blocks that I can’t seem to improve on. The funny thing was that the word I did think I was gonna stammer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
1 points

My parents took me to doctor for my stuttering treatment when I was 10 (I'm 18 now) i have always had severe anxiety. The doc told my parents that they have to keep telling me that ""I'm alright and t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
4 points

"I'll always be a stutterer. But that doesn't mean I'll always stutter." I love this! My story is similar to yours. I was fortunately able to attend speech therapy at a young age and I found I had to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
6 points

As a stutterer as well, I think it does help more-so with the tension. Sure it won’t help with the stutter, but it will help with taking everyone by surprise. Everyone has a ‘shock factor’ reaction...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 8, 2022
11 points

I have a speaking exam and don’t know what to do

I have a speaking exam and don’t know what to do I have a really bad stutter and don’t know how to get through this I don’t want to stand in front of everyone stuck on the first word shivering my lips...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
6 points

I think it matters only because I limit myself when talking to others because I am afraid of stuttering. I am afraid that others will think it’s wierd if I stutter. Why I am thinking like this I do no...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
6 points

Stammering is often situational or context specific. I’m not surprised to hear what you describe. School was particularly difficult for me..I imagine the anticipation of being asked to say your name w...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 7, 2022
5 points

dating w severe stutter?

dating w severe stutter? greetings! was just hoping for some insight on what the community's thoughts and experiences have been re: dating while stuttering - EDIT: not asking as a stutterer myself, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

i like to think that i’ve grown to be pretty thick skinned but i’ve always gotten really emotional when someone references my stutter in a negative way so i completely understand where you’re coming f...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
2 points

That's not something rare. But right now there's a competition for a managing position in my workplace. And when i start stutteing during presentations, some of competitor for the position inserts p...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 6, 2022
9 points

Any tips on presentations?

Any tips on presentations? I have a presentation for one of my classes tomorrow, and I am really nervous. It is a group project, and I have to present 3 slides. I have told my teacher I stutter, but t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life