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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
1 points

Thank you! Yeah, especially as I'm an overthinker, I tend to forget that people may not be phased at all by my stutter when there's other things they're more fussed about in life!...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
3 points

I also worked in a Call Centre with a stutter, which at the time caused me a lot of stress. Not sure how, but over time, I’ve gone into more and more speaking roles, like training classes and speaking...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
2 points

Showing vulnerability, although might not feel it, is a sign of great strength and confidence, so if you think saying something upfront would help, go for it. You’re stutter sounds like mine, which ov...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
3 points

The only time I mention my stutter is when I really need to push out a key word and there's too long of a awkward pause. Besides those moments I rarely mention I have a stutter because I view it as se...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
2 points

41yo professional here. I always let my audience (applies to work/women) figure it out and never had any real negative consequences that way. If they wanted to talk about it, I'd discuss....

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
3 points

I'm rooting for you my friend. And you're absolutely right, don't lower your standards on account of your stutter. Confidence and self belief is the key....

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
2 points

Thank you, that helped. I really wanna date a beautiful girl, I have high standarts for the guy who stutters but It also always pushes me back because I think that really good looking girls also have ...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2021
9 points

Exude confidence, regardless of your stutter. Usually other people don't care about your stutter, esp. If it's mild. But they DO follow your cues. If you look embarassed after stutter/block, then it m...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
2 points

I don't have a severe stutter myself, but like you, when I'm nervous I tend to trip over my words and struggle to pronounce similar-sounding letters next to eachother (getting me to attempt a tongue t...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
1 points

Fists or underbellies are just my tips and I think them valuable to share with.In essence,when and before stuttering,stutter leads to somatic responses resembling anxious somatic responses.And my tips...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
2 points

Yeah went to get booze last week. They asked me what’s my birthday instead of taking my id. I try to get the first number out (8). I go “eh-um.. eh-” At this point I think to say “zero eight”, it wil...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
2 points

Answering the work phone is a part of my job and sometimes I freeze up, and no words come out. Other times my speech is smooth. I take it day by day and try not to be hard on myself. I hope you do wel...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and input! I suppose it reminds me of the general quote that it's gonna get a lot worse before it gets better until I feel relaxed and get used to the job...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
1 points

John Harrison has written about this many years ago. If you haven’t read it I think you’d enjoy it as articulates some of what you’re getting at here https://www.stuttering-specialist.com/post/underst...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
2 points

>Not like I'm apologizing I like that you're saying that, it's important not to apologize for just stuttering. Also, a simple trick I found when having non face-to-face conversation is looking at...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
1 points

Thank you for the helpful response :) I may take you up on that DM one day. And yeah if I stutter, I usually own it. I say "excuse me, I stutter." Not like I'm apologizing. Sort of like the same way ...

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postr/StutterAug 28, 2021
27 points

I just want to say a huge thank you to the people in this sub reddit who motivated me to continue streaming on twitch. I've really gained confidence honestly. Thank you so much. I've left a quick clip for you guys to see my improvement in my speech. Thanks again and love you all

I just want to say a huge thank you to the people in this sub reddit who motivated me to continue streaming on twitch. I've really gained confidence honestly. Thank you so much. I've left a quick clip...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
2 points

Hello friend! If you want someone who's been in your situation, I am one of them. Long story short, I used to work in collections in a call center and it happened a few times that the client would...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
2 points

I mean some people try to get rid of it without succes, I went to 3 logopedists over a period of 5 years before just deciding to accept it, and I know from talking to other stutters that there are: 1....

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
1 points

Stuttering is not genetic transmitted. Surely, there are some genes that make people more prone to stuttering, but these people are more anxious by nature, more "hurried". It's all in the hands of the...

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