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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2020
2 points

I literally posted this yesterday. Stuttering causes a positive feedback loop of withdrawing from social life, thereby atrophying your brain-vocal complex which increases the stutter. You have to flex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
3 points

>I've have this feeling that I'm wasting my youth years, and I see people living their lives normally. Don't worry, everyone's wasting their time to some extent. Those people you see? Definitely w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterSep 24, 2020
48 points

Alone

Alone 21 years old and I'm just too alone man. Making social connections with people is too damn hard; At work, at university, with new friends... I have a couple of friends here and there and that's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterSep 20, 2020
22 points

My Limitations

My Limitations I have often been described as someone rather mysterious. Curious, observant, hard to figure out, etc. But the truth is, I have hidden myself from others out of shame and disconnection ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
1 points

Ending it just here and right now will not bring anybody peace. It's not worth it. Positivity can get boring and old really quickly, but what else have we got? All we can do is accept it as it is and ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2020
2 points

hey i’m almost 17 and i have a mild stutter and i also have social anxiety as well and trust me i know how you feel. it’s literally the worst thing ever. staying home to avoid presentations, constan...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2020
3 points

Hi I just wanted to say I am so sorry you're going through this. You're def not alone, I know that suffocating feeling all too well. I know the feeling of trying to fix things and feeling hopeless bec...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
postr/StutterAug 10, 2020
31 points

I Don't have any friends

I Don't have any friends Hello, I'm a 23 year old male. I have had a stammer from the age of six. During my formative years I was really oblivious of my stammer, and easily expressed my individuality ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Friendships & BelongingHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2020
1 points

I personally don't like voice chatting with randos in video games -especially team based ones! This has nothing to do with my stutter/anxiety; I've just noticed that people are usually far too toxic ...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2020
4 points

I'm in your shoes, too. I have only talked about it once with my parents and they sent me to therapy and it didn't work out. And that was it. We never talked about it again. They don't know it's more ...

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Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
1 points

Ignore what she said. My brother was my biggest bully about my stutter (which is pretty severe) my entire life. I’ve also had better jobs, longer and fuller relationships and friendships, and happines...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2020
2 points

I don't know you case exactly, but the pattern for many of us is similar-- the less we socialize, the worse the stutter becomes....

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Loneliness & IsolationSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

funnily I never got bullied in school. but I was never accepted. the students and the teachers just pretended that I didn't exist. that really helped my social skills lol. and people wonder y I'm so a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

I also moved to a new school in 9th grade, going from 400+ (where I knew everyone) to 2500+ (where I knew no one). I didn't have a single friend for the first two years there because I was too afraid ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

same here that's my biggest fear with having kids too, if i even find anyone who can tolerate me enough to have kids with me....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

Keep it up! However if you are serious I'd recommend you to complement that therapy with a psychologist to treat that anxiety and social isolation; if you don't work all those issues, they will come ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
1 points

I completely relate. I'm too scared to talk. im too scared to go out. but I genuinely like seeing new faces and going to new places. I keep telling myself to behave like an introvert. I try to convinc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2020
2 points

Stutter, shame of stuttering that caused social anxiety that caused isolation which caused no higher education than one year in high school.. Nah. I'm stupid as shit....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & IsolationSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2020
2 points

It’s funny you mention this, I agree 100%. I don’t think I stutter less or am more fluent but I am more confident approaching people when they can’t see when I have a block. So glad I found this group...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
2 points

Hi, I can totally relate to you! I am also 23 and have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. The past few years it's gotten really bad. I believe it's because I've become more independent and...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation