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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2020
2 points

You did the right thing OP. If anything, I would have demanded to see the manager and make them repeat exactly what they said. I’m a very kind person in general, but I absolutely will not stand someon...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2020
2 points

Fair play to you!! Pisses me off that ppl don’t take me serious, talk down to me or assume I’m lacking something mentally due to my stutter! I guarantee if anyone of them woke up tomorrow morning wit...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2020
3 points

Good for you man! Stand up for yourself! There have been so many instances that I look back on where I wish I did what you did....

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postr/StutterDec 28, 2020
9 points

Stuttering is the final boss of my life. The last thing I need to overcome.

Stuttering is the final boss of my life. The last thing I need to overcome. I feel like my life would be quite literally perfect if I no longer stuttered. I am 22 years old, working at a top tech co...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
1 points

Yea it’s rough man, we’re the only disability in the world that still gets laughed at and get little to no accommodations for it. Trying to stay positive as well though....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
2 points

Thanks! Yea if that day comes I’ll be pretty upset with myself too. I wish you luck though and this sub is always here for you....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
2 points

Congrats on soon becoming a Dad! I've been struggling more with my stutter lately since my daughter started stuttering. Chews me up that she likely inherited it from me, I just need to be strong for h...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
3 points

Right, and that's a terrible outlook to have. _"The only thing that will make everything good is if this thing goes away entirely, maybe some time in the future."_ It completely robs you of ageny in...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
5 points

Yea for me especially that’s not easy. I can’t focus on the good things like that knowing I’m just gonna stutter again in a couple minutes lol Honestly, the positive outlook I have is the hope that t...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2020
3 points

I hear ya man!!! Stuttering ain’t an easy road to walk along but fk it just keep putting one foot infront of the other and plod through shit. And fk the haters!...

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commentr/StutterDec 26, 2020
2 points

Yeah, I think many stutterers have had that happen to some extent. I also think a lot of stutterers have tried getting stuck on something anyway. Must be one of those cases where something can "click"...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
2 points

I stuttered all my life. I declared complete fluency at 58 years old. I’m not hear to sell you anything, believe it or not I know your pain.I’m here to help you. You don’t have to deal with stuttering...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
2 points

Try to be a little bit more spontaneous in every way you can imagine even in your every day life. Not only in speaking. Try to remove any expectations as much as possible - let the reality surprise y...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2020
5 points

It’s definitely fucked, I’m wit you on that. Nobody wishes they were born with a stutter but here we are. That’s good that you’re not letting other people affect your speech tho cuz that’s one of the ...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2020
3 points

Well, you know, stutter _is_ a problem. It's the reason we have communities like this, and it's the reason we keep hanging out and discussing it with a bunch of people. Stutter is _difficult_. It'll k...

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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much for replying it really means the world to me! 🥺 I didn't want to acknowledge it since I wanted to push things, maybe if I didn't think about it it wouldn't exist. Now I really want...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2020
1 points

My only advice is to make the best out of your situation, don’t give up and live or life to the fullest even thought you stutter. You only live once don’t be stuck with regret!!...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2020
1 points

I get days like this too man. Where I don’t feel competent due to my stutter. But fk it don’t let that negative inner voice come out tops. Keep fighting 💪💪💪💪💪we a bunch of strong motherfuckers!!!...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
2 points

It's okay , my friend. I know you've done your best and sacrificed so many things to fight your struggles and to get to where you are today , not only that but to get the job you want . If you're ha...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
3 points

Exactly what lilmexican92 said, we all have our good and bad days. But you’ve accomplished so much thus far and you will accomplish more things in the future👍....

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