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postr/StutterJan 14, 2025
23 points

Struggling. :/

Struggling. :/ Stuttering is so isolating. The struggles are so specific. No one in my life can relate to anything like that. I've had times in my life when I coped with my stutter and had a lot of co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2025
1 points

I tried to find that exact clip but found this is instead. Very helpful. I also like to follow how Matthew McConaughey uses his voice and hand movements to tell stories. Whenever I had a bad word, I o...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 14, 2025
4 points

Any tech professional who stutters?

Any tech professional who stutters? I have a tech job. It's really hard to nagivate and articulate my thoughts. My school and college days were competitive and i didn't care about others as I wanted t...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
2 points

It made me such a better kid and person I started QB I was class clown when the teacher asked who wanted to read I put my hand up PROUD.. Why, because my dad stuttered and he wasn’t ashamed he was my ...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Genetic & Family FactorsValidation & EmpathyMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
5 points

Exactly, you hit the nail on the head. As you pointed out, if we don’t like our own stuttering or feel afraid to show it, how can we expect others to accept it and be comfortable with it? It’s somethi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
8 points

You mean, why is it hard to admit to people that you have a stutter and to start talking with a stutter? Because we are ashamed of it. People, in general, find it hard to admit their imperfections, li...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
12 points

I can speak for myself: Its so hard for me to accept stuttering because stuttering is not something I see people commonly do. Even if I see someone stuttering they stutter gracefully. In my case its m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
1 points

Thanks for sharing your experience. You are right about the same solution that is not applicable to everyone. Mirror practice or avoidance techniques are not only solutions. We need to work on minds...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Advice OfferedMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2025
1 points

Honestly, them "overcoming" the stutter is a big exaggeration. Generally, this means they just learned to control and suppress it by doing specific exercises. Even for those who supposedly overcame it...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
2 points

Here's something that is true for me and for lot of stutterers that I've met: The more you try to hide your stutter, the more you start stuttering. The less you try to hide it, and just stutter openly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
3 points

Aaaand just like that you discovered what eastern meditation philosophy, esp, the buddhists and hindus have been teaching for thousands of years. Its a fascinating topic which I've also started gettin...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
1 points

I get flack all the time in this community for saying this. I don't have bad intentions in saying so. I've improved quite a bit from stuttering but not quite there yet so I'm still here looking if peo...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
1 points

I see, I do agree with you. Even though we live the same struggles, the way we cope with them is very different. Personally, that “speak freely” attitude is a double edged sword for me, but it might h...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
0 points

Onset at that age is more rare, but not extremely rare. Some people's stutter develops later. The good thing is you can deal with it in a more productive way than we did when were kids. Don't try to h...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
1 points

Don’t feel badly. We do whatever we have to do. If that can allow you to more comfortably express yourself it’s the right thing to. Another stutterer....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 9, 2025
4 points

Job Interview - Sales

Job Interview - Sales I just had a job interview for a sales job! I think it went okay... As okay as you would expect a person with a non sales background to do. I have a very mild stutter. its very...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
4 points

The best treatment is to acknowledge you stutter and stutter freely. Then you start worrying less so you end up stuttering less. So take a job that entails a bit of talking, it will be tough but in th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
3 points

I actually know ASL and am fluent in it! Communication is hard for both, it’s shocking how little the hearing world actually knows ASL let alone how to accommodate for deaf people. Don’t give up hope,...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
9 points

I wouldn’t suggest lying about being hearing impaired as people struggle with that and lying about it seems a bit wrong (in my eyes ). I use asl whenever I have a particularly bad stuttering day and ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
1 points

On a personal level, fighting my stutter means letting myself stutter freely, and it’s mentally draining. There is no sole method for all of us unfortunately...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment