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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
3 points

I’m not quite there yet unfortunately but I hear what you’re saying….I do agree self acceptance is a major part of the journey...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
2 points

Yes! It helps me to vo vo voluntary stutter. This way I can show myself that it's okay to stutter, I feel more in control, and the other person hears that I stutter....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
1 points

Yeah, since it doesn't really get better for me, I just have to make light of it sometimes! Can't do much else....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Humor & Community ToneAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
3 points

I wish that was the case for me, but I'm in my 30s, and it hasn't really gotten easier yet. I'm glad that's the case for you, and many others, though!...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
3 points

It gets easier the more you do it. I was a cashier, and then became a supervisor at a grocery store. I used to have to answer the phone, talk to customers all day and I got better at stuttering. I did...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
2 points

In the states stuttering is a disability. It interferes with a major life activity. Feel free to call it a disability! It’s nonvisible disability. No more hiding either, that’s the only way I regained...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMar 22, 2022
6 points

Developmental Stutter

Developmental Stutter Have slight history of stuttering and a relative had one at a young age. I had a TBI in 2017 at the age of 13 and started uncontrollably stuttering. Been in and out of speech the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterMar 22, 2022
3 points

I think I might be becoming more easy going about my stutter

I think I might be becoming more easy going about my stutter What I mean about that is I’m telling the difference between a light hearted joke to not be offended by and someone mocking me. A joke I’m ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideStigma & BullyingHumor & Community Tone
postr/StutterMar 22, 2022
26 points

Guys I finally did it! I am no longer ashamed of my stutter! Once you finally accept it, it’s like 3tons of weight is just lifted off your shoulders!

Guys I finally did it! I am no longer ashamed of my stutter! Once you finally accept it, it’s like 3tons of weight is just lifted off your shoulders! I did by constantly challenging myself and putting...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2022
1 points

Totally agree. I suffered, and still suffer, from the negative effects of 30+ years of stuttering. If there's something I can pass on it's the 'getting over it' phase. Are you gonna get over it in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2022
1 points

Yes. And... Some people are more biologically wired to feel/notice/believe they are being ridiculed, making your very true advice a very difficult process. and the temporary failures to “let it go...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2022
1 points

How were you able to decide to be okay with it? It sounds almost like a pro/con list here, but I’m curious if weighing the costs and benefits is what changed your mind....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2022
9 points

Some people use laughter when something happens they don't understand. Most adults will quickly pick up on someone stuttering and that's what counts. If they continue to laugh at you knowing you hav...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2022
4 points

Thank you so much for your kind words! There are some days that my stutter gets really bad, but there have been one guy who came in and who also had a stutter and told me he thought I was super inspir...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2022
5 points

be open, dont hide. one thing about stuttering, its kind of like an asshole filter for friends. romantic relationships too...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
1 points

You may have heard of the Mcguire Program. it combined two approaches, 1 was the acceptance- non-avoidance approach like yours and the 2nd was overcoming the physical causes of stuttering. It worked f...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
postr/StutterMar 18, 2022
5 points

Do you ever feel guilty in moments of fluency?

Do you ever feel guilty in moments of fluency? Whenever I would look at a list of emotions associated with fluency (fear, shame, anxiety, etc) I would always be confused about guilt being listed. I ma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
1 points

:) I believe in you, you can really do anything you put your mind too and be less hard on yourself when you do stutter, it’s normal, so don’t think anything less of it...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
1 points

Yeah I’m making this worse than it has to be. It’s cause of my perfectionism. And yeah, i stutter less around people I just feel chill with. So that’s an amazing sign that we’ve passed the awkward sta...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
1 points

If you really wanna try then no ones stopping you, only one that’s stopping you is you haha. Glad to hear that you stutter less around her, means that you feel comfortable around her...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride