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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
2 points

Talking is talking. Stuttering is something else. Stuttering is a condition that affects talking. But yes, speech therapy can help with the stuttering. That's not just "getting good at talking", thou...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

I get what you mean about the force of will and bag of tricks. Thanks to that, a lot of people don't notice that I stutter until I tell them. A lot of times, a special situation triggers my stutter. L...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

Just to update everyone, I got the job at my dream company! I've been here for over a month now and I love it. Thanks so much for the tips....

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
5 points

Congratulations and I'm glad for you! I hope you get the job! As a stutterer myself interviews have been hard for me as I tend to lose eye contact when I begin to stutter. I have an interview using Z...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

I can understand that, interviews can be crushing sometimes. Aside from my ability to be flawless for 10-15 minutes straight (force of will + bag of tricks), they can be tough to do. One of my tricks,...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

I was like that originally in my low 20s. Eventually I was like, alright, I'm never going to get anywhere so I put myself through college. I knew I was going from a slow boil into a frying pan for a w...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

When you have a family to support, mortgage, bills, and all that it's not so cut and dry. Rocking the boat can get me in a bad position. I would approach HR if I actually had proof, but doing what you...

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postr/StutterMar 26, 2020
69 points

I just had an online job-interview via Zoom

I just had an online job-interview via Zoom It was in English and as a non-native English speaker it was very very hard for me. Right now I'm sweating and I don't feel really good, but I still feel re...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
0 points

Dude, what kind of messed up people do you work for? Hold your ground when people demote you and put you down like that. I know you need a job to survive, but have some self-respect Jesus. If a boss w...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
0 points

I hear you. While I was still in college I was a math tutor and I was let go. My boss said I'm not a good fit as she fired me after I'd been working there for a year. My stutter likely had something t...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
3 points

Well I’ve been at the same job for 8 years and haven’t advanced at all. And always been afraid to switch jobs. So what does that tell ya...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
7 points

My stutter isn’t too serious, but it really hinders my ability to fire back answers, deliver punchlines or start conversations, so I mostly just stay quiet. As far I can tell no one at work knows I st...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
2 points

Yep, I now I'm in debt with tens of thousands of dollars from college. So it would be hard to have a job that doesn't pay high because of my monthly college bills. A large part of me regrets ever pick...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

I wouldn't mind that if it was doing something with one of my 2 college degrees. Are you talking like a postal worker delivering mail?...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

It's toxic because it's a high demand job, often underpaid and overworked. People are constantly stressed out. I know there's jobs out there that you know what you're going to work on tomorrow, and th...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
3 points

Yea, I'm glad that others are not experiencing what I have. It's given me a lot of rot on the inside for a long time. It's gotten better over the years though, but the rot is still there. I know I'm w...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
4 points

Hi OP, I'm curently in IT. Your 5th job kind of reinforces my belief that this field is mostly a toxic cesspool. My stuttering issue makes it difficult for me to explain things to both co-workers an...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
2 points

Generally, governments have hiring programs designated specifically for people with disabilities (cause stuttering is one). If trying for a federal job, you need to get a Schedule A letter from a doct...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

Yea, you're right I probably just had a long streak of bad luck. I don't have any evidence, but I vowed to myself ever since the engineering firm job that if I ever do get evidence down the road, that...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

Management can make or break a position, which it seems like every superior you had was a grade A douche. I’ve had my challenges while finding and procuring employment, but nothing to that extent. If...

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