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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
2 points

That is interesting about the bilingual aspect of your stutter. I also agree that a disability doesn’t make you who you are but it is integral to the person you are. That’s just inevitable....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
2 points

I don’t think you should think of it as a burden tho. You are a human being and have a right to the pursuit of happiness. In my opinion stuttering is more of a mental confidence issue that a physical ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
4 points

Yeah its funny I always say too that I would be a totally different person without the severe stutter. Probably so confident and successful its depressing thinking about it. I was insecure at 18 and s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
6 points

Really depends on the severity of your stutter and your confidence level. If I didn’t have a stutter I think I’d be an over confident dick. My stutter creates self doubt that balances me. That being s...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
3 points

you’re right- i’m letting the stutter consume who i am as a person to the point where i can’t even talk to my coworkers casually. i do need to own it and not let it blur the lines of who i am. my spee...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
12 points

One tip I have: don't think of speech therapy as a solution. Likewise, don't think of stuttering as a problem that needs to be solved. It just needs to be *managed.* I too have struggled with anxiety ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
4 points

Yeah I get that, because everyone’s brain is different, everyone’s personal history is different, and everyone’s stutter will be different. I’m really sorry about all of the pain your stutter has caus...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
28 points

Yeah I feel that, someone stuttering for a year when they were 5 doesn't equate to them understanding what it's like on a day to day basis for many of us. I know they are just trying to relate which i...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
5 points

Very sorry to read this but you are stronger than you think. Dealing with such a burden isn’t easy and not everyone can handle this. You are a warrior my g, we all are ! Life is going to prove to you ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
1 points

When you have a stammer, your confidence can take a big hit. Honestly it's going to be a very long road ahead of him if he is going to get over it. I'm 22 now and have had a stammer almost all my life...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
2 points

Hi! I have ADHD and a stutter. My stutter developed at around 5 years old. Though my ADHD was never severe as a child, it got pretty bad as I entered high school. I used to love reading books. In midd...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
2 points

A blog or maybe even a comic could work. A stutter is hard to describe with words, but if you are good at drawing, you could maybe do a comic and post it on Instagram or something like that. Just do y...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2021
2 points

Short answer: it’s hard sometimes but you keep pushing on. I’m 27, and I’ve stuttered my entire life. Like you, it is fairly mild but some days are worse than others. As a child I was extremely self ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2021
8 points

Agreed! Saying that you stutter when you're nervous is going to give them the impression that you are nervous all the time! People who stutter, stutter everyday. It has nothing to do with nervousness....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2021
2 points

As someone whose slept with 30 different women, sober, even with a stutter, I can humbly tell you to tell those fuckers to go fuck themselves... So, they judged your character based on a first impres...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2021
3 points

Work groups used to be my biggest struggle as well. Feeling excluded from the conversation and the jokes. Often being too scared to say anything because I didn't want to "ruin the flow" of the convers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2021
9 points

How old are you? My roughest years were in my teens. You do learn to live with your stutter. I used to think a lot of negative things about myself, that I would never be successful, find a girl, etc. ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2021
49 points

Facing My Fears

Facing My Fears I want to share a thought, from a journey that I embarked on a few months ago and what I’ve learned coming out the other side.. Like I’m sure with many people, growing up I had a stu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2021
6 points

I totally get this. I find it real hard to start a conversation with people when I’m experiencing a bad speech day. Like I can literally sit beside someone at lunch and not be able to initiate a conve...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2021
1 points

Yeah I can understand your dilemma. I once came across another stutterer and had to introduce myself to them. It was scary because I was convinced he world think I was mocking him. Anyway, this phen...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessIdentity & Self-Perception