commentr/StutterFebruary 9, 2021

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As someone whose slept with 30 different women, sober, even with a stutter, I can humbly tell you to tell those fuckers to go fuck themselves... So, they judged your character based on a first impression, where you simply were al anxious about being liked so that you can attain a livelihood, a bare necessity to life, food in your plate, maybe even a family some day, that you stuttered... Oh man... Is that the worst they can get you on!? That's sincerely pathetic. If that's all they can pin on you, compared to all the losers out there, and not give you a livelihood in exchange for good hard-work, then how much do you think those fools appreciate their own livelihood? Perhaps, since they are so eager to brush off an excellent candidate over their general anxiety, perhaps they themselves take for granted their grandiose paycheck, as they clearly associate their Identity to their Job Title, to help fulfill their own dark void inside... Because they need to feel superior, to feel some purpose, to feel special and validated and real, Narccistic, Egotistical people will judge you for anything stupid, blow it way out of proportion, all to... Make themselves look "Better Than" you to their Colleagues, bc they at that moment in time felt inferior and insignificant themselves... Some food for thought hommie. Good luck, don't sweat it, breath and be confident... You'll get a job with "Cool" people some day soon... Remember that when you look for a job, you are shopping around too, for the right job. It's not just a one way street... They need to sell themselves to you... Once you obtain your livlihood, once you obtain certain amount of money per month, more money won't make you any happier, and every employer knows this... More money, past the point where u can buy most of the meaningless superficial goods and food and medicine and savings, doesn't really buy you much more happiness... Being a self-loving, self-validated, non-judgemental person, not judging other ppl and not judging urself, is what brings real happiness... And furthermore, to be completely honest with you, if this company is any good as you say it is, if they have good people there, then this idiot would have be silently judged by all his colleagues as an asshole... I certainly would, and people respect me at my job. Fuck that piece of shit. Moving forward, if u wanna follow up with them, I'd recommend you stay clear of that guy, and email back everyone except him... He's not looking to hire anyone... He's looking to look cool and have fun...

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Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience

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Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment