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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

I’m the opposite but the same problem, yeah. Maybe it’s a thing of that around others I’m a confident and audible speaker, whereas I worry that my parents will interrupt me (which families always do) ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

I can see you’re in a lot of distress and it’s okay to let it all out. It’s hard and at times seems hopeless. In my experience being open about my stuttering and telling people what’s going on when i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

>"*I'm obviously interested in anything brain. Related. I haven't been really able to find anything on the link between stuttering and blinking. When I stutter, and this seems to be a shared exper...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

Idk yeah shure you got the point it will prevent/hinder you in some aspects, same as poor eyesight would. When it comes to girls/boys in most cases, i think it's the other side effects of stutter th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
30 points

What's the alternative? Be bitter like you? Don't have goals and don't try to do anything in life? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Life is too short to worry about failing and worry about w...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

Everyone of you are wrong.

Everyone of you are wrong. Wanna know what happens when you try to be a hero? You get hurt, so go ahead! Go ask that super hot girl out and expect her to say yes to a person who can barely speak to he...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

Totally know what you mean, and I've seen that look on people's faces, it's a hard one to swallow and move on from. I think this is one of the instances where I feel like I can reprogram my brain, jus...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
5 points

Yes. In the workplace too but then I take a quick glance around and no one is looking or seems to have reacted. I feel I'm paranoid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
2 points

Hmm I’ll admit, a part of me definitely feels like I’m taking the easy way out. However, the significant reduction in anxiety/stress during the call, plus the reduced awkwardness overall balances it o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 12, 2023
4 points

Upcoming Virtual Assessment Day

Upcoming Virtual Assessment Day I’ve recently been accepted into an assessment day as part of an apprenticeship application program. Part of this is an interview and group project. I’m very anxious be...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

Im having the same problem , but in my case i have a generalized anxiety disorder , so im afraid i ll pass out , im so nervous man , i dont know what to do , each time i remember that i have a present...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterApr 12, 2023
11 points

Did you feel this bombastic sad eye while stuttering in public?

Did you feel this bombastic sad eye while stuttering in public? *side eye...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
6 points

https://discord.gg/stutter <---- 1500 Stutterers together streaming, gaming, voice, text chatting. It is a beautiful community full of support and encouragement. We have people from all over the wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
6 points

Damn, that dream job really hit home with me, I take whatever I can get, and I am just now realizing it. It is hard but we have to not think so bad or critique everything. I am working on the same thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 12, 2023
22 points

A Community Where you can be yourself

A Community Where you can be yourself Hi !! The biggest fear for a person with stutter is speaking publicly , I myself have had some dreadful days , inorder to curb this fear i want to put forward an...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

It is practically impossible to keep your calm in such situations when you know deep inside that your stutter will kick in anytime now. I completely understand what you went through, and if it makes y...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
23 points

Wow your best advice is to just "Shrug it off".

Wow your best advice is to just "Shrug it off". Yeah too bad you cant talk to people, or speak a foreign language good, or get your dream job. Better to just accept it than get a mental illness over i...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Reading out loud never helps me. I read out loud at home very fluently but if I get chosen in class to read out loud, it’s the complete opposite. I guess it’s just my anxiety :(...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

I can’t pronounce my S but I never let that effect me. But then I realized I have everything a girl would like at least I think I’m good looking popular smart and athlete. So I have come to conclude t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
4 points

The vicious cycle

The vicious cycle The pressure/ fear to not appear slow, unintelligent builds up soo much anxiety and nervousness, 99times out of 100... you stutter anyway and feel embarrassed. Then you descend into...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more