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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
5 points

Well it's quite a difficult thing to talk about and your friends might not be knowledgeable enough to talk about it so I guess that's why they want to change the subject. I'm sure there would be ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
6 points

There's nothing wrong with stuttering. Most good/reasonable people do not think any less of a person that stutters. If you're cool and confident about it, most other people are cool with it as well. T...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
6 points

Trust is fundamental to a relationship. Do you trust him? Respect is also fundamental. Respect yourself. If someone thinks less of you for your speech impediment, that's their failing. Not yours. So...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2022
1 points

I don’t necessarily agree with that. Maybe that’s true for some, but for me, if I’m not afraid to stutter in front of someone, and I don’t feel inhibited around them, I don’t stutter. So if that same ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJul 28, 2022
7 points

OpEd In San Diego Paper: It took me 29 years to ‘come out’ as a woman who stutters. I now help others do the same.

OpEd In San Diego Paper: It took me 29 years to ‘come out’ as a woman who stutters. I now help others do the same. ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
2 points

This is a lovely contrast between the oppression of stuttering and the freedom from stigma...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
3 points

I used to mainly block to avoid repetition. I do all of the common facial and body ticks, panic, and get out of breath when I block. I turned 40 last year and I've just decided to stutter freely and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
2 points

I think for the most part the cure to stuttering is already there. It’s no easy route but it’s basically to overcome your own inhibition in your life so you can accept your emotions and desires, and a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
1 points

I hate whenever I'm at a restaurant and the waiter or waitress gives me my food and I am unable to say "thank you". That really makes me mad. My stutter makes me seem like a jerk even though I don't t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
16 points

When I get ripped and muscle the heck out of my stutter......it’s going to be over for y’all fluent speakers...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

they were good people but my social anxety made it hard for me to connect still. We did control exercises and something about desensitisation. Im more happy that the techniques helped me than that i m...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

Wow, so much stigmatising language…. A key message here has always been stammering does not define a person and I would always encourage those who stammer not to define themselves in this regard. Part...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
3 points

Be confident when you stutter. No need to be ashamed. I incorporate my hands when im stuttering....

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PridePhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
5 points

This is good advice. I am in a similar situation and I have learned to care a lot less about what people think. Those who judge you by one little imperfection were never meant to be in your life anywa...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

Most of us will never fully get rid of our stutter. Maybe you could try continuously putting yourself into situations that will make you extremely uncomfortable until you kinda get used to it. But tha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

I have related closely to what you say. Voluntary stuttering has really helped me with this. It really helps desensitize you and decreases the fear in those moments. And never, ever apologize for yo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
14 points

Being 18, starting college, is a huge transition and I totally understand the feeling of being overwhelmed and hopelessness. The avoidances...not speaking in class, at work are all reinforcing the fe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

thank you, I thought I was the only one thinking about this, I'll try it, in the end, I have been my whole life trying new stuff about stuttering. Let me know if you see some progress....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Advice RequestsAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

Thanks for the question, takes courage to even reach out to people! I block also, but I seemed to have made some significant progress recently from just taking my time more. Not just when I'm about ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
3 points

I know the pain, its not fun. I constantly finding myself thinking about situations and how I would react to them if I didn’t stutter. For example, I was thinking about how a parcel was left at a ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life