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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
7 points

No, you would not. The negative memories and the fear of stuttering is why you do it now. Getting rid of the negativity is one of the keys to fluency....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
1 points

Can confirm. Some people reach that state earlier, some later, but it doesn't need to be rushed and will come naturally. I'm 23 just like OP and I don't care about being "normal". It's a subjective th...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
5 points

I know you’re right. I’ve been too emotional to be logical about this. More than likely, these people have never come across a stutterer in their life. Of course they come to these conclusions. I re...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
5 points

For me it's really about finding who you are being being confident in who you are. Banishing that concept of ‘normal’ is a step I am working towards in my mind....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
11 points

Hello I’m an Eric too - 53yo stutterer. One thing that helped me was having a simple but challenging long term goal that provided me with something to focus on and lose myself in. It made the many F...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
19 points

Welcome Eric. I know how you feel and I hope this group helps you feel a bit less alone. I think all of us stutterers go through similar feelings, for what it’s worth. Things that help me are regula...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

I dont have a speech impediment but when Im anxious I do stutter and I hate it so to everyone who deals with that on a daily basis, your all fucking kings and queens and to anyone who isnt male or f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

I went into a career in logistics and am now making more money than a lot of the other people in my company because my performance doesn’t rely on my voice all that much. I know a lot of advice with s...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

Yesss fr sometimes I have the same thoughts as you like if I could speak without stuttering I would speak all day long....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

My social anxiety is completely independent of my stutter, so I see your hate and shrug. Feeling better for venting?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

I actually find this phenomenon motivating, because it clearly shows that fluent speech is attainable. If I can speak fluently when I'm alone, that means I can train myself to do this when I talk to o...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
11 points

It’s good to get it all out, and I feel the same sometimes. But remember that no matter how bad our problems may be, others may have problems that are worse that we just don’t know about. Even if the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
24 points

Ok so I stutter, badly at times and I feel this but try to remember that we have ZERO idea what they are thinking, feeling or experiencing. I am married to my partner who is socially anxious. It is ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
16 points

Venting is healthy. Have at it. As a stutterer, you might take for granted the courage you demonstrate with every interaction. Despite the anxiety and stress a stutterer feels over and over again, we...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
1 points

I’m free and would love to do a interview I stuttered my whole life and actually wrestle for team USA...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
1 points

Hi there I’m just got done with two years of college and I’ve stuttered my whole life. Going to college as a stutter was one of the most scary things, the professors don’t care about really anything...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
2 points

Steve Harvey’s advice is to say it three times in your head first before you say it out loud. I’ve become almost a pro at finding an synonym for the word that I feel myself start to stutter. Also I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
2 points

I’ve been stuttering my whole life, and when your internal monologue doesn’t match how your voice comes out it is very frustrating. The harder you fight it the harder you stutter but this is where I’m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
6 points

This is very common. I’m the same. I think maybe our brains process speech and actual communication differently. Hence it’s more a communication disorder than a speech disorder. For instance, if you’r...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2021
6 points

There's no absolute cure, but here's what has made my stutter a lot more manageable (from the perspective of 20 year old who doesn't have access to speech therapy, but has had a stutter all their life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological RhythmsFluency Techniques+3 more