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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
6 points

You aren't looking for "most girls". You're looking for one girl. Remember that all people think differently. Grouping girls as thinking one way is completely wrong. Each individual girl will be think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMay 4, 2023
25 points

Nothing I do can make up for my stutter....

Nothing I do can make up for my stutter.... I've had people say to me that my stuttering is a good filter to weed out shallow girls and that someone will fall in love with the "real me." As if they're...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
2 points

I’ve always been introverted, even as a child. I’ve always been trying to belong, to be accepted. Then I started watching porn at around the age of 9. What first started purely out of interested and c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
1 points

>How do you reduce anexity and speech issues before I speak? Great question! Anxiety is influenced by a lot of different factors such as: * **unhelpful beliefs**: for example, "*if we perceive er...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
2 points

Thanks for these precious informations. I m hyper sensitive so i m very careful about facial expressions. I saw it too much when i spoke and it s the last thing i want to show him. I only give him smi...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHome Support
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
2 points

Thanks for these precious informations. I m hyper sensitive so i m very careful about facial expressions. I saw it too much when i spoke and it s the last thing i want to show him. I only give him smi...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHome Support
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
2 points

>Maybe because of teasing by some friends or maybe because of some habit or maybe because of bullying or maybe because I had convinced myself that I did stammer or maybe because I talked less that ...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetParent Emotions & GuiltAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
3 points

Same here! It effects me everyday. Have you done any speech therapy and does it help? I'm sure mine is mostly coz of anxiety...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
2 points

I understand this a lot, it s like a mirror effect. (I didn't meet other stutterers, but other people with social anxiety). What about when you re very nervous, is it still there too ?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
1 points

I talk normally now, or almost normally. I m 38 years old, and i still feel social anxiety when i see or feel people looking at me, when i talk in a group...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
10 points

I was shy from childhood. Used to talk less. But I didn't had it in the beginning for sure as I spoke fine with my family. Don't seem to remember how or when it started. But I think lack of confidence...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 4, 2023
5 points

any ways to improve or at least to hide stuttering without the help of physchologist or a therapist?

any ways to improve or at least to hide stuttering without the help of physchologist or a therapist? i have stuttering and that causes me to have social anxiety. In my environment, nobody understands ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2023
1 points

Just discovering this sub. I was awkward and yes maybe it was linked to my stutter....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 3, 2023
6 points

Anyone have tremors that make stutter even worse?

Anyone have tremors that make stutter even worse? I have social anxiety which gives me occasional tremors that makes my stutter even worse than usual. How do I work with it? Anyone else deals with thi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 3, 2023
12 points

Tips to improve stuttering (anticipation is created by repetitive negative thinking, replacing productive responses with avoidance responses reinforces anticipation (Seth & Yaruss, 2020), easy onset or preparatory sets rely on their ability to anticipate which reinforces pathways to anticipation)

Tips to improve stuttering (anticipation is created by repetitive negative thinking, replacing productive responses with avoidance responses reinforces anticipation (Seth & Yaruss, 2020), easy ons...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2023
1 points

I push lack of fear, forcing situations to get used to talking, but I still get anxiety. I still talk, next Monday I’m briefing 300 people. Anxiety is real, but fear is a choice....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2023
2 points

My fear of stuttering causes my social anxiety. I always have something to say in my head, but it never comes out :(...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2023
3 points

Im not sure if i have purely social anxiety or if my stutter makes me have social anxiety if that makes any kind of sense...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2023
1 points

Making friends is difficult for everyone as we all have self esteem issues or are embarrassed about something. But we have to make that effort to socialise no matter what the insecurities....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2023
2 points

I'm not socially anxious but I'm anxious that i might stutter and get stared awkwardly !...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment