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commentr/StutterDec 4, 2024
2 points

For some of us, it is a lifelong situation. And you're right, it is a struggle that only another person in our shoes can understand. Fluent speakers (non-stutterers) do sometimes have a stuttering mi...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 3, 2024
30 points

I start to hate my life after every shift at work and I want to resign.

I start to hate my life after every shift at work and I want to resign. I work as a cashier at a bakery. There are times when I speak fluently and there are days when I want to resign from the shame ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 2, 2024
5 points

Block stutter - how it affects my everyday life

Block stutter - how it affects my everyday life I’ve just started a new job, I haven’t met all of the staff there yet & I had my first day yesterday. I’ve already posted on this page and mentioned th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2024
2 points

I think that man's entire strategy here is to exhaust you because he just can't say "oh ok, I was wrong, now I know better". To him it's more important to be in the right than to have an actual, meani...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2024
4 points

I rarely ignored rude comments, I would most often find something wrong with them (balding, glasses, acne, whatever) and make a similar comment back at them about it and then ask them how it felt as I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2024
1 points

I hope the same thing happens to my mom lol. She treats me like shit bcs i stutter....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterNov 30, 2024
7 points

The woes of starting stuttering as an adult

The woes of starting stuttering as an adult Hi there! So it has been a year since my brain decided to stutter out of nowhere, and man I still hate it so much and I feel like the hate grows with every ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterNov 29, 2024
12 points

Gave a presentation today... Didn't go well

Gave a presentation today... Didn't go well I just gave a presentation today... (it sucked) Sometimes very rarely (only once I think) a presentation went well (if well means I stuttered at the start...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2024
1 points

In the USA a stutter is a recognised disability so you should be fine if you can let them know that. Sucks though, I feel your pain and frustration, it always strikes me as amusing when such small thi...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Access & RightsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2024
1 points

I never practiced at all because I used to be angry with the "fate" that brought my stutter. In retrospect, it was a way to give the universe back the middle finger. It only hurt me though. Whatever ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2024
5 points

I have had this happen as well, it's right what you were feeling. I have gotten angry and upset because I feel defeated from not being able to win and play just as well as others. It's great that you ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2024
2 points

OP, I can sympathise with you. I have a severe stutter since I have started to speak. I have no suggestions on what to do. But I just wanted to offer what support I can to you. Good luck OP!...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2024
9 points

So true, took so many calculations and courage to spell that particular word or sentence and they want me to repeat that again!!! Naah I just said 'nevermind'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2024
3 points

Normally 3 out of 5 days of the work week are complete shit and I humiliate myself. I get it...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 26, 2024
14 points

Rough day today

Rough day today I had a job today with a client I've had for about a year and she's never heard me stutter. I don't know her that well but I've always been comfortable around her and have never had an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
1 points

and even worse, if somebody interrupts me and I'm stressed, I just try to end my prepared sentense and hope he knows and will understand, and start talking louder, You can imagine sometimes, in extr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
11 points

21f currently with my boyfriend of two years. My stutter has gone through its stages of mild to somewhat severe (not one sentence goes by without some block) it just depends on how stressed I am. He's...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

Well I can say for certain that I have and still bottle up frustrations. Sadly I've trained myself to hold my emotions in and not expressing them(especially anger). You've reminded me of what I learne...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

My stuttering was definitely as a response to the trauma of being the child of uncaring narcissistic parents, it was either a coping mechanism for me to try to get attention or because I was feeling t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
2 points

50 years now and I still can't accept I stutter, why WTF. I think the following are questions we all will keep on having: Is this why I'm hear, To prove stuttering is also normal Do I need to / C...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment