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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
2 points

The reason that a lot of guys who stutter have trouble in relationships is because of a lack of confidence and pride in oneself. You need to have an “idgaf” mentality about your stutter, or you won’t ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
1 points

I have one of these that I keep in my wallet. I don’t pass it out or anything, but it’s a nice reminder to myself to be open and genuine about my stuttering. I find it helpful everytime I open my wall...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
3 points

Thank you for posting this. My mom always used to tell me that I have nothing wrong with me and I simply just "lacks self confidence" and so she didn't think taking me to a speech therapy would solve...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
2 points

I'll clarify a bit - I mentioned researching studies that address mood control on the premise that stuttering can be triggered and/or worsened by stress and irritation (a bad mood). Once I research th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
9 points

I mean, do you know every affliction that exists? Stuttering especially is hard to notice because nervous people often stutter....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
16 points

Self awareness. I'm much more self aware (sometimes this can be negative though) than my friends. I get on really well with almost everyone because of this I feel....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 10, 2021
2 points

Do I have to get diagnosed with a stutter?

Do I have to get diagnosed with a stutter? I mean if I stutter can I just say that I have a stutter? I didn't even know that you could be diagnosed with a stutter until a few weeks ago and I'm just wo...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
4 points

I actually started to accept my stutter.. But don't know how the person on opposite takes it(like some may be broad, while others show it as reason to deny a position). These points are really worthy!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
2 points

Preface speaking, especially public speaking of any sort, with explaining that you have a stutter/stammer. Once people know, theres nothing to be afraid of. Sounds pretty blunt and fucked up, right? I...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
7 points

I am sorry for that. Are there some good speech therapies in your country? That is the way out of the misery. The second option would be to change a view on life (which may be hard). When I was think...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
3 points

Tell me more about your confident speaking please. I couldnt do it and I cant do it. I feel cringe and I think other people too. But maybe I am biased. I literally hate talking and small talk. &#...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
1 points

Yes, in your case I would definitely go for a speech therapist. I'm happy I went for it that a good therapist will give you techniques to use BUT they will also remind you that they don't hold a cure ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
2 points

Thank you so much, I appreciate it! Yeah, this is the sort of manager I'd like to work for who won't make a huge fuss on my stutter. :)...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

So proud. As a fellow stutterer I can totally feel you when Someone is so kind and understanding. I wish you all the best for the future. Cheers...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

I’m not sure if this will completely answer your question, but it’s possible you have some fear and perfectionism when it comes to speaking English. You are aware that your English skills aren’t as go...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

It's a movie 2007. Coming of age film. It is written and directed by a guy who stutters. Also stars Anna Kendrik (who does not stutter in it)...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

Amazing advice but I find it hard accepting my stutter. Maybe because it’s the fact that iv just turned 18 iv got to deal with finding a job, relationships and adult stuff....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much! Yeah, I felt I had to take the lead and get it over and done with by telling him at the beginning before he commences with the interview questions as I wanted him to feel assured th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

Fear of relapsing Not believing that I've actually improved The "stuttering has no cure" dogma (which can be interpreted in many ways) Feeling that I don't deserve fluency...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

Thank you for the reply!!😁 IT 2017 is one of my favorite movies. Do you perfer the original or the remake 2017?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception