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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
5 points

Control what you can control. You can't control how people react to your stutter. The good thing is that you're actually trying to talk. Keep talking and people will adapt to your stutter. When you're...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

Definitely practice lots of times. Change the words you feel will be difficult. Watch yourself in the mirror saying the presentation and you will have a good memory of being able to do it. You’ve go...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

In college I had to do a presentation in front of more than 100 people. It was a final project and the teachers decided to gather students from all courses, but I persevered through. It can be hard, b...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
6 points

Fuck them. Don’t drop out cause some dipshit is giving you hell. I had a speech class this past semester and it was pretty frustrating. Whenever I’d present I could feel the atmosphere in the room dro...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
1 points

Thanks👍. Yea, when it came to texting girls back I used to be the same exact way. Right when I hit the send button I was almost sure that I had said the wrong thing and was about to confuse, or offe...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
1 points

That does make a lot of sense. I think expectations is huge in the experience of stuttering. It’s really kinda a subjective experience. It’s like having money. One person might make $100,000 a year an...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
1 points

I think there are a lot of factors but I think the road to recovery mostly involves the same general principles. So every program has to involve supportive individuals, growth in confidence, assertive...

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commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
3 points

I definitely agree. I have a similar thought. Maybe the worst thing about stuttering is the downspiral that happens after. If we don't let that occur and do what we're supposed to, stuttering in itsel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
2 points

They didn't make a mistake hiring you. If they hired you fully knowing, you're clearly perfectly qualified for the role regardless of your speech. Think about how qualified you are for the role vs a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
5 points

Let’s goooooo!!! Great post I also would like to add that if you do something or have a specific thought that lifts your spirits, take note of whatever it is that helped boost your attitude, and then...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

Do what makes you happy. I was told growing up that I was worthless and I envisioned a future of isolation and depression. When you are doing a job that you were told you couldn't do and are excell...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
0 points

Therapy works temporarily for 6 months , stuttering is like a cancer .It comes back vigorously. No treatment whatsoever. You need to relax ,get away from toxic environment, need the constant encourage...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
5 points

I view fluency as a spectrum. Hardly anyone in the population is without some disfluency. For stutterers, our disfluency is so frequent as to be evident in everyday speech. I was a severe stutterer....

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
4 points

Remember to breathe, drink water, and take your time. I feel for you. It will be difficult at first but the more you do it, the easier it will be. I also suggest asking a friend or family member ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesPreparation & RehearsalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
8 points

Bruh, I recently got selected for an internship at a pretty high profile company next summer, and the only thing on my mind has been that they'll realise that they've made a mistake. I'm scared af tha...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
26 points

While there is no magic pill for stutter, I noticed that there are certain things that help you manage it (I need to stress that 'manage' does not mean 'cure'). For instance, in my case, these are suc...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Energy & Biological RhythmsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
2 points

I think I know the pain you are talking about. If you’re not referring to pain from depression, the pain you feel in your head I think is from competing intentions that are wearing you out. For exampl...

Speech & StutteringCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
2 points

I agree, I stuttered basically whole my life, but with practice and mindset change was still able to host online meetings, make phone calls with strangers, have a side job where communication is very ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2021
1 points

That’s really cool! I also believe we can gain confidence from rejection. And of course when things go well that builds confidence too. I watch this YouTube channel called “ShaunDan TV.” They approach...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2021
5 points

Gotta be less insecure about the speech. Life goes on, laugh at the jokes. Unless they are directed and verbally towards you....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride