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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
3 points

You do stutter. Trying to believe you don't is the problem....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
1 points

When they don’t do it in a mocking way I actually like it. It gives me more confidence because even fluent people stutter at some point. It makes me try to not take my stutter so seriously and to not ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
2 points

You stutter and you always will stutter. You can only accept your stutter, easier said than done ofc but a skilled speech therapist will help you with this...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
6 points

How long has it been since your improvement? It takes time to change mindsets. Or it takes active efforts to recognize and correct those sorts of thoughts. One thing you can do is recognize your suc...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
1 points

The thing is I know that I don't accept my stutter, I can't, I've tried so many times, I need to stop lying to myself because I can't just wake up one day and tell myself that Im fine with stuttering....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAnticipating StutteringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
-1 points

Honestly I love it when people finish words/sentences for me. People do NOT owe me their time and if I am delaying their time with my speech, I believe they have the right to proceed without me. Why...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
2 points

Maybe it helps, if you tell him to listen to his anxiety to become tolerant against it. Maybe, if he becomes mad at himself, just notice these thoughts and feelings and realize that this increases his...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
3 points

"it’s okay to stutter no matter how much you stutter." Suppose, we dive deeper into being okay: What is the goal of being okay with stuttering? * The goal is that stuttering doesn't bother you * The...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
2 points

Just don’t expect anything, it will be okay. You can only control so much my friend not everything. You can try but something will go wrong. Just accept who you are: you are someone who is trying to b...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

congrats. it's so brave to talk to a girl you like, irrespective of having a stutter. th...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
8 points

This resonates with me. I used to find confidence in fluency, now when I tell myself it's okay to stutter, surprisingly I feel more grounded and fluent. And even if I stutter, I don't talk myself down...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterSep 29, 2022
27 points

The Stuttering Paradox

The Stuttering Paradox So one of the best advices I’ve heard is to accept your stutter and to stop chasing fluency all the time. Ironically that helps a lot with fluency. But then you’ll/I’ll get used...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

Gratitude is key u got this be thankful for everything u got and find the good in things ur on a good start it ain’t easy for those of us who stutter but u Gota keep it pushing and show the world u go...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
3 points

Let’s gooo all you Debby downers on here listen up to this man let’s go, we could all have cancer or be blind let’s be grateful we can experience this life 🙏🏻...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 29, 2022
82 points

Got a girls number

Got a girls number So I stutter mildly and there was a girl I liked for a good 2 weeks. I finally built the confidence to go and speak to her and she seemed interested and got her number. Crazy thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

That’s where I’m at now, I’m 30 and really don’t stress much about it anymore, I’ve accomplished my goals with it so at this point I don’t feel any pressure. Best things to help would be see a speec...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

That's the point I'm trying to reach. I'm always tied down by mind so getting there where I don't have a care in a world seems like the ideal dream for me...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

I haven't seen it. I'll check it out. Yeah I'm trying to fully accept it. Wanna try to get to the point where I don't fear any outcome whether I stutter or not and just speak yk?...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

Have you seen the movie “The King’s Speech”? I’d recommend it, you may relate to it quite a bit. We will always stutter, once you can accept it you’ll function more comfortably....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
2 points

Pretty much. In a nutshell I think of it like this: I’ve heard regular people around the age of 35-40 state that they used to be a negative/hateful person but now they’ve turned their life around. Th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride