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postr/StutterMay 10, 2023
6 points

Finally accepting I (19F) have a stutter. Where do I go from here?

Finally accepting I (19F) have a stutter. Where do I go from here? I have no history or memory of stuttering in my childhood. I knew that something was wrong when I was around 13-14 and my throat woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
11 points

Wouldn't say I beat it as such but I would say by talking in a different tone of voice, it's definitely improving. Yes I still struggle but for some reason talking quicker seems to make me more fluent...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
3 points

I think that's good advice from your therapist to draw a straight line from what you want to say to saying it. Try and think about what you want to say and keep going with that. You'll feel more hones...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
2 points

Though you change your change, the new name will be hard to tell. It's incurable. You have to accept the fact that stutterers are born different. Make yourself comfortable with supporting family membe...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
2 points

I have not. But in interviews I have more flexibility to use alt words so I don’t get tripped up. But beyond that if you have confidence and can own the conversation your stutter won’t get in the way....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
2 points

Yes. But also make it a point to do a preamble when and where you can. It will give you allowances for sticky spots where you can try fluency improving techniques (i.e., vocal priming and slower and m...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 10, 2023
6 points

Recruiters Hanging Up When You Stutter While Saying " Hello "?

Recruiters Hanging Up When You Stutter While Saying " Hello "? Has anyone else experienced this? You apply for a job, and then the next day you get a call from an unknown number (who you know is the r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
3 points

Why do you want an MBA? The best way to get an MBA is to get a job within an existing line of business to gain some real world experience. Then earn your MBA within that line of business to help you a...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
2 points

Worry about the factors you can fix. You can improve your appearance: gym, style, skincare, hair You can make more money. Introvert & stutter kind of goes hand and hand, so I would just say, le...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
2 points

I stopped substituting my words a few years back and I don't think it has helped much or made much of a change. I also work in a call centre with strict scripts and call handling times. Recently I've...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
7 points

That’s understandable. I don’t see that any different than people preferring their partner to come from the same culture or having a similar lifestyle. Don’t close yourself off to those that don’t stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
23 points

Stuttering is way more common in men, some women do stutter, but I've never met one. It's probably a bad idea to just go for that as a requirement though. A lot of women are very understanding about s...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
1 points

Ahaha Believe me - if I had a job with 100% no phones I would, but I've learned through the job hunt that it's impossible to avoid it entirely. Thankfully I only have to work phones an hour or so a da...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 10, 2023
17 points

Has anyone stopped substituting words and fully embraced their stutter?

Has anyone stopped substituting words and fully embraced their stutter? So I was watching this video: [I Stutter. But I Need You to Listen. | NYT Opinion](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0E_wMIwfSI)(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterMay 10, 2023
9 points

Can a person who has severe problem with stammering ( me ) do mba and become successful?

Can a person who has severe problem with stammering ( me ) do mba and become successful? I have a problem with stammering for pretty much all my life . In school days , during roll call , I would just...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2023
3 points

I had a rough phone call today at work with someone being rude to the point of mimicking me and asking for "someone smarter" to talk to. I held my own and got through the call, but went home in tears ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2023
2 points

Yep. It happens to me a lot of with specific letters. For me E, A, H, C or K (which my name happens to start with a K) S. Im sure there's more but i cant think of right now. Sometimes ill try using...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2023
6 points

As for me, female here, I don't attend family gatherings because of fear of ridicule. I enjoy being alone, and i don't care if people see me as anti social. To each his own. 🙂👍🏼...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2023
5 points

Honestly, I've had this happen way too many times to count. Its alright to feel these but it's not a reflection of you, you just need to not care and focus on yourself. I'm so sorry that's happened to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2023
3 points

Fact bro. even though I was born extroverted I've been forced to become a introvert due to countless painfull experiences. too many to count honestly. I like being alone for a bit, but I also want to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation