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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
1 points

What helped me not get so mad at people is convincing myself of the fact that they are confused. People do dumb things when they're confused. They have knee-jerk reactions, they conform with others if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

Everyone figures out their own way to deal with their stutter - or they don't. I've met 3 extremely successful older people - an account manager at Ogilvy, a head of a department within the federal re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/CursingStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
2 points

Honest answer I think you just care less and less what others think, which is fundamentally what stresses us out as stammerers making it worse. I still have ups and downs but manage things far better,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
1 points

I turned subtitles on and started reading more cured myself in a year. Now I turn the captions off and practices on hearing everything the first time since audio nowadays is weird...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
1 points

Depends, on what set is running the block honestly . If you plan on serving rocks on someone else's block you could ask permission in exchange for some of your profits. However if you are openly rolli...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/CursingSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
2 points

I stutter no matter in what situation or what I'm doing, and my anxiety and if I'm calm or not also plays a big role, sometimes I can have big blocks or severe stutters, and even get stuck on certain ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

Don't worry about it. Bit of life advice for you though. Learn to not stutter during sex or pick a safe word you can say first time everytime....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
2 points

I avoid talking even to my parents. I stutter so much, more than ever, probably because I take Wellbutrin for depression and apathy, etc. I can talk to myself normally and I love to sing when alone. B...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
2 points

I mean ... one of the basic things that a human should be able to do .. and we have to use all sort of techniques to do it. Damn you stuttering!!...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
4 points

I don’t stutter when I am talking to myself. But I do start stuttering immediately when I “imagine” myself talking to someone. It’s like communicating turns on something in my brain even when I am alo...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
1 points

Maybe just pause until the block diminish and then you can say your business... thats a BIG question so there is no easy solution. Keep trying what works for you. But you make a great discovery... tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
3 points

Hey! That is interesting in deed. Believe it or not, I have never talk to an other stutter about stuttering so its my first time hearing that. I think my man u/MoneyButterscotch195 hit the spot. Mayb...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential AssociationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
2 points

Doesn't really make any difference.. does it? I'm super fluent when I'm talking to myself but it's always a mess when I need to talk to someone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
4 points

I stutter all the time except when im alone alone i can read say full sentences without even missing any words but its no use as i stutter very bad infront of other...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
6 points

I don't stutter by myself but I did catch myself stuttering while speaking to my dog and that actually made me a bit sad...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
5 points

I got a flash back. Oh god. So it was early 2020 that i had to enroll in a speech class that was 80% girls. Mind that i have a major stutter😅 like at time i just can't get shit outa my mouth and just...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
1 points

What I do is I just breath and start my sentence over that helps the majority of times and otherwise I try to keep my mouth moving so I'll have it less often. Good luck....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
3 points

I don't ever talk to myself out loud enough to know if I do or not.. Probably not because the rare times I do speak when alone I don't.. But that's very little talking, like saying shit or something l...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
2 points

Yup, turn 40 next week. Life is good. Recent sobriety has me seeing much-needed, new adventures in life such as owning a home and the possibility of a new, more satisfying job. I don't think I imagi...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationSeverity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
1 points

Broooo. Damn it's like reading myself here, every instance of what you said is completely true. I have noticed the same stuff as you said, Do you mind if I drop you a Dm. ?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment