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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

And yet you did bother. Listen brother, and I'm speaking from the heart. There's no magic pill out there that's going to cure you. You might as well be seeking a pill to teach you to play the pian...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
8 points

I’ve given cards like this to many clients, both stuttering and various other reasons as well. It works as well as you use it. People are more kind than you think but disclosure of an impediment is ne...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
6 points

A few ideas: first explain in text that you stutter and you prefer to doing business through text for that reason, but you can speak by phone if they like. Just get that out there so when you don’t t...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
2 points

basically, hands-free cell phones can be used without the use of hands. Now, the person who uses the phone can 'speak' to the TomTom app on the phone to get the directions he wants to drive to, while ...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

Technically fluent in Spanish but not native speaker good anymore(born and raised in California), but if I get stuck ill just type it out on my notes app and show it to em...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

As for a proper name? Dunno. My speech therapist called them gap, filler or starter words/sounds when I was 8 or 9. I still rely on them at 45....

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Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 13, 2023
12 points

Do you have a term for this thing?

Do you have a term for this thing? In order to kickstart a sentence or sustain my flow, I often use certain set words and phrases such as "like" or "i mean" or "okay so". Do we have a term for this te...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2023
1 points

S is the absolute worse for me. I have the horrible habit of saying the word "it's" before a word that I can feel I'm going to stutter on. For some reason it helps but it's unnatural....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2023
2 points

First Cent: Desire is only a bad thing when it consumes you, or you need that thing **right the eff now**. In my experience, especially relating to my stutter, my desire to be more fluent is not a pro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2023
2 points

I've worked in 4 retail stores, my job which i have been working now, is depends too much talking on phone and face to face. Because we are selling technical products and you have to explain specs to ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
2 points

For me it was improving my mental health in general and swapping words. I don't stutter too much these days, so I just swap here and there. It helps me to keep the conversation flowing and avoid that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
3 points

This sounds dumb but talk to yourself for 20ft man day every day consistently, maybe when you’re driving or something. And write down your stutter words, write down one a day, and repeat that word 100...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
2 points

Similar to what the original commenter said, basically aspirate the hard sounds slightly before you pronounce them. "Thank you" becomes more like "^(hh)Thank you." "Totally" becomes something like "^(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
2 points

Hey, sorry for the late response. I can't really say specifically what's helped with the PhD program except understanding when presenting your work at conferences, etc., that you're essentially the "e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
3 points

Come on people, this is a great, high effort post and we need more posts like this in this sub with valid suggestions for overcoming our stuttering. A common thread in these suggestions is to “forget...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
2 points

Great comment! In reply to your message, this is my attempt to create simple instructions to apply to speech. **Simple instructions:** 1. Self-confirm that avoiding your desire or urge to immediatel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
1 points

I've been stuttering since I was 10. Now 18 and it sucks ass but I gotta suck it up and stop hating myself for it. I've done speech therapy with multiple people over the years nothing seems to really ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 11, 2023
12 points

How can I ACTUALLY stop stuttering?

How can I ACTUALLY stop stuttering? I’m new to this sub. I’m 16 and have stuttered since I was 6, so for 10 years. From 6 to 7 years old I stuttered a little but it went away, but as of the age of 7, ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
1 points

Let's try. 1. As I've already stated, there are no medications brought to market for stuttering. 2. Medications that have been through more extensive trials, such as Ecopipam, have been withdrawn fr...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportMeds & Substances
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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
2 points

Yes! I’ll get it out perfectly and clearly and then they want me to repeat and I’m like “uhhh…I….the…yeah”. Sometimes I give up and say something entirely different from my first sentence but that’s m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution