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postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
34 points

Am I allowed to be miserable with a stutter?

Am I allowed to be miserable with a stutter? I'm noticing that the general vibe I get from this subreddit is that we need to be happy no matter what because we choose to be depressed or some shit. Thi...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

I stutter way more with family. When I talk to other people, especially people i am attracted to, my voice just naturally deepens and I speak much more calmy and slowly so I dont stutter as much. I th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

That’s how most of us feel. But I hope that don’t stop us from enjoying our lives. You’ll be alright. I did 4 years in the army and undergrad with a year of medical school. You’ll be okay, just don’t ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

Deam its the same for me, my parent got divorced when I was 8 and a spend the maggiority of the time whit my mother, and I stutter way more whit my dad, it could also be becouse i feel pressare to be ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
6 points

Stutter more with my dad with whom I've not lived with fulltime between ages 7-14 years of age. With my mum it's much more relaxed. Although I at times stutter with her I don't anticipate stuttering a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
2 points

Definitely following to see if it helps I have a moderate stutter. It's not the worst, I can go whole sentences without blocking but some sentences I can't get a word out. I know it's not terrible but...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

I think it is because some of us feel that we are judged more by our family than others, or we want to impress our family members....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
3 points

I know how it feels missing important social gatherings because of anxiety. It really hurts. And missing out on everything else most people get to enjoy socially. For me ssri drugs I've tried doesn't ...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
54 points

I am a 31 yo female who stutters, I have just been prescribed Abilify

I am a 31 yo female who stutters, I have just been prescribed Abilify Hi! I have been stuttering ever since I was about six years old. My dad used to have a little stutter as a kid but he got undernea...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsHarmful Med OutcomesHelpful Med Outcomes+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

I am M26. I am still single. I had many crush in my college life/school life and also now in my work life. I have never been able to talk with them because I stutter a lot. Talking to girls is even mo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

Exactly same here. I don't shutter at all when I sing. I used to sing during functions in the past. But when I talk to strangers and family members when I need to ask something I stutter or when I ask...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
20 points

at work right now and struggling so much

at work right now and struggling so much just ranting tbh having such a bad day with my stutter today. part of my job is answering the phone and the constant struggling on the phone is making me exha...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Energy & Biological RhythmsFrustration & AngerBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
16 points

I'm 31 and unfortunately my life is literally in the shitter. Severe Stuttering has literally ruined my life..I'm doing my part & seeking therapy & trying meds out that could help. But in the ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
5 points

Im only 20 so I dont think that i know everything and i could change view on this, but also for me the feeling of not be able to accomplish enything is real and devastating. Im scared to talk to anyba...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
2 points

Agreed that our attitude toward ourselves will also shape how others view us! And most people don’t care tbh. They’re too busy thinking about themselves 😆...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
3 points

This is all great advice, but dang it’s a lot to think about. It’s just SO much. Especially for a child. Thinking about “not stuttering” is as exhausting as actually stuttering is 😞That’s been my exp...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms
postr/StutterJul 9, 2023
3 points

Mentality to improve?

Mentality to improve? I want to get better and stop letting it control me, but my heart isn't really in it. Like how am I suppose to defeat it when I'm still scared shitless of it. People say that you...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
1 points

Idk man, I tried fighting it but my insecurities and anxiety comes back twice as bad. So I gave up on a social life.😕...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
5 points

I believe it's mostly due to fear of stuttering in front or around people and getting judged. It adds more pressure increasing your nervousness and anxiety. Where there is nervousness and anxiety, stu...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
11 points

One of our problems as stutterers is that we put far too much value on how others view us. We do a disservice to others and ourselves when we do this. It chips away at our confidence. And it chips aw...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride