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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2023
7 points

With me it's a confidence issue. Sometimes when i put no pressure on myself to speak, i am fluent. When i put pressure on myself, i stammer more. If speaking is considered as an analog to sprinting, i...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2023
6 points

I love kiosks but I think they have made younger generations of stutters, like myself, way more anxious...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2023
3 points

oh. my. god. exactly this. "haha look, he forgot his name again" – yeah thanks for stealing the very last piece of confidence I had left in myself that wasn't drained yet by my panic attack from being...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2023
11 points

As i am not a professional i cant really give you a scientific answer but in my experience every time I experience weeks or days of heavier stuttering than usual it typically is because i am anxious a...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterJul 23, 2023
20 points

Why am I stuttering so much lately?

Why am I stuttering so much lately? So lately, I’ve (20M) been stammering a lot, way more than I usually do, to the point where I end up freezing mid-conversation or whenever I try to start one and it...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 22, 2023
23 points

Mind races while talking

Mind races while talking It's like when I talk, my brain start an avalanche of different words in my head, like suggesting different ways of saying what I want to say, leaving me confused and overwhel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2023
2 points

I don't know. People treat stuttering way differently than other disabilities. I have an uncle who's blind and for the most part people go out of their way to be helpful and kind and understanding to ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingListener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2023
2 points

Hey, I'm really sorry to hear that you've been through such challenging experiences growing up. It's understandable that your family background and the absence of strong connections with your sibling...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2023
1 points

You will need friends dont lie to yourself. But also its likely you will be forever alone so either have split personalities, (be a social butterfly around people). Or be prepared to be depressed your...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJul 21, 2023
12 points

What is the next step?

What is the next step? I'm almost 23(F). I come from a broken home,with 4 kids. My parents broke up when I was 6,dad moved out and left the country when I was 10,but they officially divorced when I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2023
2 points

I think it's the same for a lot of different issues, no one can control their thoughts in the moment. If I tell you "don't think about a red firetruck" you are going to think about a red firetruck. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2023
4 points

I don't enjoy being laughed at, or people acting like I'm an idiot, but I think the thing I hate the most is making people feel awkward and uncomfortable. It's horrible and depressing to be unable to ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2023
2 points

I totally closed myself. Beside stutter, I have social phobia and some level of anhedonia, these days social anhedonia also so... Why bother? I know this is not the right approach, so I will get into ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2023
8 points

My school thinks the faster you answer and talk the more you’re prepared, when I was asked a rather difficult question in 9th grade I thought for 3 seconds and the teacher called someone else, it wasn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2023
21 points

College is nothing like high school. People are paying a lot of money to be there, not being forced to be there. You will be around actual adults and young adults so the maturity and emotional intel...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 20, 2023
11 points

Tips for college

Tips for college I(18M) will be joining a college very soon and I have moderate to severe stutter. So give some your experiences when you were a fresher in college. I am definitely anxious about it ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
3 points

It seems to me that you paid a lot of attention to your speech at that moment. I don't know if when you spoke slowly, you were thinking about the words accompanied by some feeling. The issue of words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
5 points

So ive done this to myself. You literally get into your own head and make it worse. I've always been able to read, speak, sing, when I'm alone but when I really thought about it especially practicing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 19, 2023
11 points

Never stuttered when alone, now I can't stop.

Never stuttered when alone, now I can't stop. I've been a lifelong stutterer, but one thing has always remained constant. When I read out loud, no matter what, pronouncing certain stutter inducing con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
3 points

I’m the same way. The absolute worst thing for me is going around a circle and having everyone introduce themselves and give a little bio in a professional setting. Like waiting in line for the gallow...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking