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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
1 points

Honestly, yeah. I feel as if I will often achieve nothing in life, or my road to success will be far harder and tedious than those without a disability like ours. Having ADHD also doesn't exactly help...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
4 points

All I have to go off of is the description on the website. Here's what it says: >What do we gain from the stuttering experience? Can stuttering be an advantage in the workplace? Often, communicati...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
1 points

I think about it pretty frequently. My stutter isn't severe I would say, but I stutter pretty much every 2-3 sentences. It's repetition and blocking. I work in IT and it's draining to have a stutter i...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
2 points

Yo! I stutter a bit (not insanely bad), even though I don't work in Investment Banking, my business partner is an investment banker at Goldman in NYC. He doesn't care that I stutter. He's 30 and I'm 2...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
6 points

Ugh I had more here...still getting used to reddit. I'll try to remember what I wrote. So words of advice? - work on eye contact while stuttering - be comfortable taking pauses during conversation...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
3 points

I already secured a job before I started my "stuttering journey" so I was in a different mindset and I probably would have handled it differently. I'll share my experience and then add some thoughts. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
3 points

So do you have anything to say for people in early 20s particularly for those looking for job.. Particularly how to deal with interview?...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
1 points

I did Toastmasters for a year or so. Great experience and everyone was very supporting and you do things at your own pace. For your first speech you pretty much introduce yourself. I talked about m...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

Stuttering Adult here with a history of multiple succsssful jobs, including retail and giving tours as well as working at Disney World briefly, with multiple relationships and an engagement, and lots ...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

I completely understand a million percent! I was you. When I stuttered in front of somebody I thought about it literally all day. I’d be lying if I said I’m NEVER impacted by my speech. After so many...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
7 points

I've seen people here with such a severe stutter that they can not talk, it's like if they were mute. Others were contemplating suicide because of it. Even if it's not that extreme, many stutterers ca...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

In the end i took it and nailed the presentation, i also drank 2 beers before it. I feel very bad but it helped me i guess....

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

Family works in investment banking, brother has a stammer. Try not to focus on it. The less you give a shit about your stammer, the less your clients will. Your job will be connect the right people t...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

For me it depends on the type of pressure. Some one about to hurt them selves? I can yell stop no problem? But pressure of a job interview? Can barely speak...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
1 points

Yes I have seen the Ted talk she is great. I have tried for therapy 3 times and I have also mentioned that I stutter in a job interview. I’ve been through all of that. Anyways I just wish you the best...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
1 points

Have you watched Megan Washington's TedTalk? Have you watched WWYD episode of a stuttering waiter scenario? Have you gone out of your way to talk to a proper speech therapist? Have you read the articl...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
-5 points

You change yourself, for yourself. Again, I said I don't have a problem with the 'accept it' people and you are clearly one of them. Pretend your fat, but you don't care (which I would find hard to be...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
2 points

As a medical student I've always been very worried with how my stutter will influence my ability to be a physician. Im so sorry this happened to you OP. I've also experienced ableism at school and it ...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
1 points

My first job was being front of the restaurant to great guests at Red Lobster and I was also beyond nervous, especially to pick up calls. What really helped me was having a routine. I used to basicall...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
3 points

Haven't been in finance but I have networked with many people. I have found the best thing is to have a good mindset to come in with. One that isn't trying to impress people or prove yourself. One t...

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