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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2023
4 points

I'm 37 years old male, and I developed stuttering during puberty which became worst and worst with each passing year. The reason for the stuttering was purely psychological, I was really depressed wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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postr/StutterJan 7, 2023
29 points

Tips to improve stuttering from the book Stuttering foundations and clinical applications (2023) by Yairi & Carol H. Seery - both PhD researchers - page 1 until 94 (out of 500 pages)

Tips to improve stuttering from the book Stuttering foundations and clinical applications (2023) by Yairi & Carol H. Seery - both PhD researchers - page 1 until 94 (out of 500 pages) **Tips**: * ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2023
7 points

Well… If I may… You might want to come to terms with the fact that you are going to appear awkward if you do a preamble… Or awkward if you don’t and stutter. My main message to you (or anyone) is th...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
2 points

Laughing after us always a good thing! Love your positive attitude! In the moment, in your words, when did you almost shit your pants? Was it in the moments before you stuttered, or after? Also, yo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
2 points

Excellent to hear that you are choosing voluntary stuttering! I found it was soo helpful for me I prefer to use the term “ignorant” when there’s probably some level of malice. That’s just me tho...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
2 points

Wow, nice to hear this! You’re on to something!How were you able to separate your happiness from your stutter?...

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Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
6 points

I tell myself “wow that person is incredibly miserable and/or ignorant” and move on. Life is too short to spend your time thinking about what random people say who have no real connection to you. And ...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2023
11 points

From my perspective, vai, this is 100% true. I accepted the fact that I'm a stutterer. And I can live with it. I know it will be hard and I will have to face so many things, but once I accepted it, ...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
2 points

I feel you buddy. I'm 28 and definitely still struggle with the worst blocks. I just launched the first Slack-based stuttering community for professionals who stutter and we have over 150+ members alr...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
3 points

Hey! I completely understand and feel what you're going through. When we're excited or need to say something important, we seem to stutter the most - it's honestly really frustrating as a person who s...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
1 points

I dont think theres ever a “cure” or “fix” for a stutter, just continuing to work on it everyday so it doesnt impact your ability to get the job done 😊...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
1 points

Tried BeneTalk for 3 weeks now - it's only worth your time if you've never been to a speech therapist before. It teaches you 3 basic techniques, can't even test you on them properly, and once you're d...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
2 points

Hey! We talk about this all the time in the stuttering community I launched just a few months ago. It's the first Slack-based community specifically for professionals who stutter and is totally free t...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
3 points

Wish I knew a universal answer to this! For me it was a combination of not caring about stuttering, slowing down my speech, and avoidance of sounds that I block on (B, Br, S at the beginning of senten...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideFluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
1 points

Sometimes letting yourself stutter does wonders. Our stutter usually gets worse when we're anticipating it and we're doing everything to stop stuttering. This can create tension, and ironically this m...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
3 points

Not ever go away but it definitely gets better, almost barely noticeable. I experience moments where my speech is a lot better because I'm not fixating on stuttering. I believe that if your mind hears...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
4 points

Good for you! I stuttered badly for more than 20 years. I'm sure we lived similar lives... I used to dread the first day of school and the introductions. ​ Very long story short, I found...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

I found accepting my stutter to be the most beneficial thing for my speech. I stuttered throughout my life, severely to the point I got rejected from most jobs i’ve ever applied to by the time I gradu...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

Met my wife in the University's cafeteria on a cold approach even though I stuttered.. Basically, I decided to sit with someone new for meals, my wife was one of the new people I approach to sit down ...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2022
3 points

I started going when I was about 22 and plan on going this year at 30. I missed the past few years due to financial reasons, but I can't wait to go this year. As a YA, it's an absolutely unforgettab...

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