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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2023
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In my experience, my fluency with anticipations depends on my confidence level in that moment. If I anticipate that I will stutter but I feel confident, I tell myself "Yes, I might stutter, but so wha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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Social anxiety has a better success rate of being effectively managed, even cured. That’s where you need to start. Even though both issues feed into each other. One improving will likely improve the o...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice RequestsHelpful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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Where are you from and how do people treat stutterers in your country?

Where are you from and how do people treat stutterers in your country? Hey, I am from Pakistan and tbh stuttering is a kind of joke here. People often confuse my stuttering with me being on drugs or s...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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If you try to date and there’s someone who doesn’t like your stutter, fuck em, who cares about what they think? If they don’t like your stutter “ok next” and move on to someone else, there’s always so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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How do you even date as a man with a stuttering problem and social anxiety?

How do you even date as a man with a stuttering problem and social anxiety? I feel like my stuttering just makes my anxiety worse and I'm in a negative feedback loop because of it...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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Don't listen to this guys advice\^ what you want him to just walk in there and be like "Oh you made fun of me now I'm sad :(" ???...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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For is worth is very common between PWS. We are afraid of confrontation. Afraid of the other person getting angry. So there is no surprise that you block. Today I had to change some pants at the stor...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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I have a stutter— so does a new friend I have made

I have a stutter— so does a new friend I have made I’ve always stumbled on my words in stressful, emotional, happy, or exciting situations (very very badly when I’m tipsy). It’s noticeable but does no...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Repetitions & ProlongationsAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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Absolutely, I believe once you begin stuttering and develop the stress and anxiety around talking, the 80/20 rule kicks in, it’s 80% mental 20% mechanics… overcoming the anxiety and physiological effe...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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Then you'll slowly peak your way into insanity, reality is going to hit you like a truck when the ostracization becomes more apparent. I'm praying for you....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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cut off 99.9% of the human population then, it's a natural response of a human to judge someone by an odd characteristic. Stuttering will always be hell....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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omg same! i stutter with Js and my name starts with a J. i gotta be super calm during introductions 😂😭🥲...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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It only depends if you let stuttering define you. Sure, if you stutter very severely it’s harder, but it you stutter mildly, the only thing holding you back is the irrational fear. Cuz no one actually...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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not a single day without embarassment and cringe!

not a single day without embarassment and cringe! damn guys I'm so tired of this! Do you have such embarassing situation with stuttering daily? Like when people don't understand what is happening to y...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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I think older generations aren’t sad about it because they had to face theirs head one. They didn’t have stuff like text messages, online shopping, just eat, self serving kiosks. If they wanted anythi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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I struggle with this as well I get nervous and start to stutter I had a lot of embarrassing moments with this and I’m still trying to not get nervous when I’ve to say my name and my name isn’t a one s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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Your life can become limited unfortunately, limited jobs, limited friends, limited outgoing ventures, you wanna stand up in a crowd and do some karaoke or sing or tell a joke, but you can't. It's real...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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I think it’s completely normal tbh… I think stutterers just have.. idk the word.. it’s like a trauma response to speaking but truly asking ‘how should I speak perfectly 24/7’ is like asking ‘what’s th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 8, 2023
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are we going to live less?

are we going to live less? Lately I've noticed that stress and anxiety is a constant in our lives, and some say that this can harm our health. I also notice that my older relatives are not so sad abo...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 8, 2023
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Thinking about stepping out my comfort zone a bitt

Thinking about stepping out my comfort zone a bitt So at lunch I always see this girl sitting alone, and when I'm talking to my friend at our table, I can't help but glance at her because I just feel ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging