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postr/StutterMay 30, 2022
14 points

stuttering and dating

stuttering and dating The last couple of dates I've been the person I was going out with said they thought my stutter was "cute", I don't have the fact that I stutter in my dating profile so they didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
3 points

this really resonates, i think stuttering has always been something i had but never really addressed with friends or people around me. thank you! idk why saying i have a stutter makes me feel whole?...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
9 points

There is varying acceptance of our condition around the world? Where do you live currently? I live in Britain and I asked the same question as you when I was younger. I decided to become a self-emplo...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
9 points

I commented on this in the r/TorontoBlueJays thread, but SAY literally saved my life and this kind of representation from George is so meaningful, especially when it’s telling kids it’s okay to stutte...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
10 points

People don’t make eye contact when you talk to them

People don’t make eye contact when you talk to them I don’t know if I’m reading into it too much but I’ve noticed that some people avoid eye contact when they talk with you when they know you shutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
3 points

There is an international day of awareness on stuttering. Few years ago I made a twitter thread on stuttering based on my experience and on information I collected over the years (I was at late twenti...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightPersonal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
9 points

I strongly believe that one reason behind this is because we don't speak up. 1/100 people stutter, yet I never or rarely have a coversation with someone who stutters. I do speak to people who are hid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
1 points

Since stutterers are way above average intelligent, our kids will be highly intelligent which matters more than stutter....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
1 points

first of all i stutter and im a guy but im 100% sure that stuttering isnt attractive. Depending on the severity it can definitely be unattractive. You can still have a successful date if you have othe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
4 points

Hey dude. Im gonna drop some knowledge on you here that’s gonna change your life. Seriously. It’s not your stuttering that girls find unattractive, it’s your attitude towards it. More specifically it...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
2 points

As a previous answer said. The truth is that yes, it makes you loose points on the attractiveness scale. I was always self conscious about it, but when I gained a lot of confidence, owned it and jok...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
1 points

It really depends on the person you are dealing with. An ex-girlfriend once told me that she found my stuttering cute. In my head that wasn't making any sense because in the past I've always looked up...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
3 points

I don’t think we should be calling things unattractive. Especially if it’s out of your control. That’s not up to us to jump to conclusions as it’s super subjective. Speech can be a factor for attracti...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
9 points

Every girl that I have told abt my stutter has told me stutters are cute. Except my close friends....

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Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
4 points

Depending on how bad/consistently you stutter it could be that. Idk how old you are but I’m 25 and ghosting seems like the norm regardless of a stutter. Is it unattractive? My husband finds it adorabl...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 28, 2022
0 points

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me!

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me! I hate when people ghost me irl or online. I keep asking if stuttering is unattractive a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
3 points

I know the logic is flawed, my brain just jumped to a bad conclusion that I’m not “wanted” if that makes sense. The music stuff is awesome though! It’s so cool how one thing led to another with you an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
4 points

Hello OP. I have a stutter. I am 39 years old and I’ve had it since I was ten. My father had a very very mild stutter (mine is much worse) and I had seizures when I was very young (around ages 1-2) an...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

Do you tell people you stutter and that's why you can't say your name? People will usually get off my case when I explain that. Some people are rude and will mock me but I try to ignore it or stay awa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
5 points

Stutter is a complex disorder and there could be 100s of psychological, neurological, physiological reasons why people stutter. Kids sometimes develop stutter just because their vocal organs are growi...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career