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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

Hey mate if you don't stutter alone then this is 100% curable and it's just a neurological pathway problem. Your fight , fright , flee response gets activated when you talk to strangers and thus resul...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
3 points

Same, sometimes it's repetition, sometimes block, sometimes just saying words in a weird way. I never know so speech disability explains it the best....

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Repetitions & ProlongationsBlocks & StoppagesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

I can't say the word "stutter" but I think it's the most accurate description so that's what I say. Or try to say lol. For some reason a lot of blends are extra tough for me and I get stuck between ...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
3 points

A lot of times people associate stuttering with anxiety/nervousness (when I'm not) for me, so I just say speech impediment or disorder....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
3 points

Have always hated uttering the word stammer but that’s what I describe it as…what the word conveys and how it has impacted on me are poles apart...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
6 points

I personally say speech disability, even when I know I'd be able to say stutter. It's just the most fitting for me, especially because I feel like the social preconception of a stutter is "that speech...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterJun 30, 2022
9 points

What do you introduce your "stutter" as?

What do you introduce your "stutter" as? Stutter is obviously a hard word for a lot of us to say. Whoever made that the name had a sick sense of humor. So, what do you call your stutter? as in, what's...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
2 points

I was being more or less facetious because technically we have a disability that stems from our brains…therefore “mental disability”. I know we are smarter than all the commoners lol...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
1 points

Of course I agree with the fact it has zero effect on intelligence. However technically, we have a disability that is in our mind. Hence why I call it a mental disability....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
2 points

Stammering tends to manifest in the context of formative years and can colour the narrative of a lifetime. From my own experience this has been a blend of negative critical judgement, perceived or exp...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
3 points

The faster you embrace it, the better. As soon as I embraced it as part of who I am, my life instantly improved. I feel like my fluency improved almost overnight as well. All that anxiety and stress a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterJun 29, 2022
13 points

The time I "stopped" stuttering because a ball hit my jaw

The time I "stopped" stuttering because a ball hit my jaw I've had a stutter since I can remember, although my parents say I developed it when I was a 5-6 yo. It's not very extreme, but it's still bad...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
1 points

Stutterers aren't mentally disabled. Sometimes people act like we are, but it's literally just a speech impediment. Has nothing whatsoever to do with intelligence....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
1 points

I could relate to your post (totally) except the words Mentally Disabled Mentally Disabled, a little too drastic Even with my problem, I still think I’m smarter than most...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
1 points

I hate to admit to others that I stutter. I ~~feel~~ know it places me in an immediate inferior position in the other person's mind. Subconsciously (for well intended people) and consciously (for evil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 28, 2022
13 points

Professional writer looking for an inside view into stuttering

Professional writer looking for an inside view into stuttering Hi r/Stutter! My name is Nicolas Lietzau, and I'm a professional game writer and novelist. I'm currently working on the second book of m...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Research & ResourcesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
1 points

Yeah stuttering has essentially ruined my social life. Not that I don't have close friends and not that people don't like me, but what people see me as is only a small piece of what I'm thinking, how ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
1 points

For sure, I'm a bit of a late bloomer but I remember suddenly getting comfortable befriending and speaking with women when I was 17 or so. It seemed like such a huge obstacle before. I try not to let ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
16 points

I met my SO on Hinge. We hit it off over text, and when we started making plans to meet, I dropped a “by the way, I have a stutter. Sometimes it’s difficult for me to speak when I’m first getting to k...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
5 points

This is a tough one. A personal story here...I was married before,ironically to a mild stutterer, so she was understanding of my limitations. But before her and after her have been a bit of a struggle...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception