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how long will you let your fear call the shots? tell her you stutter. and then tell every.one.else. you stutter....

So this probably isn’t what you want to hear but it’s what you need to hear, I needed to hear it when I was younger. You said that your stutter is “sabotaging your social life.” it is, but only becaus...

Well I think it's perfectly natural to care what people think. You see it in job interviews, dating, making friends or in the workplace. It's important to care what people think because how other peop...

Surely she knows you stutter doesn't she? Go for it man. What's the worst that can happen? It's awkward, you don't click and you go on exactly as you feel now. Seems like you have nothing lose and eve...

Mentally it affected a lot in my personal life. I’ve always been lucky with who I’ve had around me whereby I was only ever picked on because of it a few times. I’m 27 now and i find that it more affe...

Social life with a stutter

Social life with a stutter M 19. Among other cases there is this girl I had a thing for in class8 (equivalent of middle school) we both finished highschool last year and she would like to meet. We ha...

Public will likely always be a way more daunting place. I get the same with people I’ve just met who I don’t have any sort of relationship with. It’s that fear of other people’s perception. Confidenc...

You know I will love to talk to different people all the time but at same time scared to stutter in front of them...

I used to have this problem as I used to imagine that people had negative reactions or expressions when I'm speaking. I've learned to block out these thoughts to try and improve my fluency. As stutt...

Sure! The physical part is just the tip of the iceberg. The main deal are all the difficulties in everyday interaction and the underlying thought patterns that breed fear and hinder us from speaking ...

Others' opinion on me

Others' opinion on me Hello, I have a small problem, I care a lot about how other people see me. Do you have any advice or a book for example? I need to realize that there is nothing wrong with stutte...

All your life you were called a "Genius" and a person with a high IQ .. and in a random moment of blocking while you trying to introduce yourself , someone with few brain cells approach you with a mal...

My best times of (near) fluency are when I’m talking about something I’m passionate about, and the thought of stuttering hasn’t had a chance to enter my mind. A big part of it is psychological, I thin...

try not caring about what other people think about you. This will help you (as it did for me) a lot in your life. People are assholes, that is clear. So just let them be and do your thing....

I work at a call centre

I work at a call centre I developed a stammer a couple months ago and I have good days and bad days (like most of us do!). Coming back to work and learning to adjust to talking on the phone to custome...

Yeah, they suck. But I promised myself I wouldn't let my stutter get in the way of anything. Interviews are a nightmare though. I may have to go through a round of interviews for a dream position and ...

Hello, thanks for the response, why do you consider that your stuttering is not driven by anxiety? Do you stutter when you talk to yourself? or why? thank you...

bro we all know that feeling. Dont let it get over you! If the worker got pissed its not your problem. Its their problem. Even if its hard to understand it, people usulally dont care at all if we st...

By telling them beforehand that you stutter. Or to make it feel even more natural, wait till you actually stutter on a word or when introducing your name, then instead of forcing through the stutter, ...

Okay so let's say you meet someone who becomes a friend. They don't know if stutter but you wanna tell them. But what if after you tell them they don't treat you the same because of your stutter. Like...