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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2022
1 points

I feel great satisfaction From having conversations and being in a large group wether this is short or long. But, when I have a bad stammer and people say the fucking ‘ok’ i feel utter satisfaction so...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2022
3 points

I mentioned it in the initial reply (maybe not clearly enough) but I want to try and expand upon it more since you say something like this and it makes me sad. It's quite common to be insecure and h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2022
4 points

I wasted over 15 years of my life hiding from everything because I couldn’t talk. I was sick of being looked at like I was mentally challenged. Jobs wouldn’t hire me. I’m 40 years old and I think I’m ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterNov 23, 2022
14 points

Pent-up, unresolved anger

Pent-up, unresolved anger I like to think that I have come far in my journey with stammering/stuttering - I push myself, I have a wide social circle, I finally was able to secure a graduate job in my ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
30 points

I often feel this way on the inside, when I am by myself. Maybe my advice will be "cringe" or not very useful. Actually, the thing that helps me to not feel like I lost something is to take that feeli...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
3 points

Sorry dude. I’ve been in the same situation many times. I always just avoided saying the word or put “Uhhh” or “Ummm” in front of it. If you can’t avoid it, then tell your boss you literally cannot sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

So sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better for you. You gotta live the life given to you and make the most of it that’s what I have learned....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

I think that’s mostly because it takes being relaxed to laugh. So I think the other people might be more focused on worrying about you while you stutter. So you gotta stop worrying and that will let t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

This breaks my heart. I know exactly what you're talking about and I'm sure everyone else here does too. It's easy for me to say but I'll say it anyway because it's the truth: give yourself a break an...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

In order to get rid of stuttering you must learn to hate the stutter not yourself. That is the key thing. You have to be able to look in the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourself, which is n...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

Thanks for all the kind words! May you also do something inspite of fear for the next days ahead. We are in this together!...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
3 points

I've felt the same way many times, I'm sorry you feel this way too. We can find comfort in knowing there are many of us out there, and lean on our family and friends for support. Just please, know th...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2022
3 points

Accept and be comfortable with your stutter. It’s apart of you so you won’t ever fully get rid of it but you learn how to manage it. Next is just putting yourself in situations you normally wouldn’t i...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
1 points

A little, it does feel a bit unfair sometimes and I began stuttering later in life seemingly out of nowhere so as silly as it sounds sometimes i make the joke that I'm 'cursed'. But it really does fee...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterNov 19, 2022
39 points

Treat yourself better than you treat everyone else

Treat yourself better than you treat everyone else Many of us are unforgiving to ourselves. "Our own worst critics" as it were. We'd never be as critical of someone else as we are of ourselves. STOP...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2022
1 points

yea it is a gamble for sure...for some reason when I say fuck before saying something it comes out 99% good It is why I fucking curse all the time :)...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Strategic Swearing/CursingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
2 points

I somehow got myself out of it. But one of my friends is still depressed. I am trying to help him....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
9 points

For me it means not being afraid to speak when I want to. But perhaps once I reach that point it could mean complete fluency. Seems that a lack of fear lends itself to more fluent and maybe even compl...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
3 points

The same as you, I will do everything I can to be one of those who overcomed stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
3 points

It’s just an exercise to make you less scared about speaking therefor have more fluency when you speak also gives you a chance to use the tools they taught you in a real life situation. I did it in my...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHope & Motivation