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postr/StutterOct 2, 2018
10 points

Does anyone else feel like they are cold and emotionless because of stuttering?

Does anyone else feel like they are cold and emotionless because of stuttering? I know the best way to reduce my stutter is just to be calm and collected, I feel it myself and I've been told that I co...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
1 points

I was exactly like this, i stuttered way worse on the phone amd never wanted to call anyone ever. I dont know when, why or how, but i can easly take phone calls, even order food etc. I have no clue...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
3 points

Probably. Seriously though just remember no one gives a shit if you stutter but you. People may look at you funny or whatever, but that's just because a lot of times they are caught off guard and don'...

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postr/StutterOct 2, 2018
51 points

I'm so dumb I just realised this would be a sub.

I'm so dumb I just realised this would be a sub. I'm 30. I have always stuttered. Reading this sub I can see my experiences are pretty much the same as everyone else but just thought I'd make a positi...

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postr/StutterOct 2, 2018
18 points

There is one way to speak normal again

There is one way to speak normal again There was moment in my work when I came to conclusion that I make all this stupid faces and noises trying to speak normal yet anyone clearly see there is nothing...

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postr/StutterOct 1, 2018
2 points

Just a little thought that came into my head. Elementary school and High school are probably the main reasons why you care so much about your stutter.

Just a little thought that came into my head. Elementary school and High school are probably the main reasons why you care so much about your stutter. Elementary and High School are (Lets be fucking h...

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postr/StutterOct 1, 2018
11 points

Talking on the phone exacerbates my stutter tenfold

Talking on the phone exacerbates my stutter tenfold Hi all, I’ve stuttered since childhood and am in my early 20’s now. I have managed my stutter to a point where it’s mostly mild and isn’t severely ...

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postr/StutterSep 30, 2018
23 points

does any other stutterer suffer from depression?

does any other stutterer suffer from depression? it really is the worst combination. i feel mentally exhausted all the time, which makes my speech even worse. i've always stuttered but it's the worst ...

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postr/StutterSep 30, 2018
24 points

A poem to my stutter

A poem to my stutter “Stuttering” Creeping black mildew, soaking my lungs; soaking my being. There is something there. I can feel it. Others can’t, at first. I start to speak. “What is it he wa...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2018
3 points

It's costal. And medically speaking, "costal breathing" isn't really a thing, as conscious respiration can only be done though the diaphragm and abdominal muscles. You can't control the intercostals, ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
1 points

To tell you the truth, I didn't really talk much period (I'm a high-functioning autistic as well, so speaking is generally just NO) but I think the first one may be closer to the truth. I don't know i...

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2018
10 points

It has taken it’s toil on me

It has taken it’s toil on me Usually Im not so pessimistic about my stuttering, but tonight I was really bothered by it. I was at the pub with a friend of mine and in the beginning I was so fluent tha...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
3 points

Because mental health is the #1 issue with stutterers. (My opinion) I'm almost 40 and have been word-replacing for too long. I avoid my stutter so much I scramble in search of words that will leave m...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2018
2 points

I haven't met a lot of people that truly can imagine how it is, indeed. I VERY often have to explain to people that stuttering is not just the act of struggling to say words, but that it also comes wi...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2018
1 points

This. I lost the number of times I say something completely different than what I meant simply because I had to change the word or I would stutter. If only people knew how tiresome it can be to talk w...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2018
1 points

I tend to become less fluent the emptier the room is. I think it's because I am naturally a very anxious person, so the bigger my audience, the harder I try. Whereas if I am alone, I have nothing to l...

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postr/StutterSep 20, 2018
67 points

I got a new job!

I got a new job! I applied for a job within my company. I have been with my company for 23 years and in my current position for 10 years. It was time to move on. Part of the job requirement is to m...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2018
10 points

r/stutter inspired me to write a book, a combination memoir/self-help book about having a stutter. Here's one chapter of it

r/stutter inspired me to write a book, a combination memoir/self-help book about having a stutter. Here's one chapter of it Hi r/stutter! Eight months ago you all inspired me to write a book. I'd been...

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postr/StutterSep 17, 2018
12 points

Job applications...

Job applications... Every job requires "good communication skills " . Fuck sake I just wanna earn a living where I'm not required to speak to people and fucking humiliate myself and destroy my already...

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postr/StutterSep 13, 2018
5 points

Stuttering Community

Stuttering Community Hey guys, ​ Idk whose gonna see this, maybe ur someone who had to deal with stuttering through out ur whole life of maybe ur someone who has a s/o or friend/family t...

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