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postr/StutterSep 30, 2022
13 points

I remember the original trauma

I remember the original trauma Today I went to the barber shop because it’s my first anniversary and we’re staying together for the weekend. Shave it all off. Trim my beard. Barber gets to my upper li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterSep 30, 2022
14 points

I tell myself I don’t stutter and had crazy confidence until I stopped saying I don’t stutter anymore and it gotten worse

I tell myself I don’t stutter and had crazy confidence until I stopped saying I don’t stutter anymore and it gotten worse In the summer I was talking to a mutual friend of mine and we was talking bout...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2022
1 points

This is massively theoretical. I agree it’s a mental disorder, but psychological, not neurological. Stuttering can also be called a “learned” behavior that perpetuates itself by causing painful memori...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2022
1 points

This is because your subconscious mind created a condition: "It makes sense to speak (more) fluently when I repeat or when dad says it". The challenge now is, to make a new condition: "It makes sense ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterSep 27, 2022
20 points

Advice for people who stutter (PWS)

Advice for people who stutter (PWS) *Person A:* Goal: he wants to become rich. Mini-goals: * waking up early * working hard ​ *Person B:* Goal: reducing stuttering Most common **inco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2022
11 points

I'm 20 years old and I haven't had any success in getting rid of the stutter Even worse when someone comes up and says you didn't try enough to get rid of stuttering...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2022
7 points

While I know this hasn’t worked for me, I can believe it’s worked for someone, especially since stutter is a symptom we don’t have an explanation for. Perhaps his stutter was caused by something diffe...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2022
1 points

The last time I told an employer I stutter he said it's in my mind. The thing is I stutter less when I'm comfortable around you. I have also learned how to speak slowly, so at times my stutter is not ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
7 points

i am a person who stutters and i say stupid shit. ironically, the times when i don’t stutter is when i say the stupidest shit....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
1 points

You suggest to believe that the words you want to say are meaningful. Positive effect: you stop compulsion Negative effect: you don't become resilient against the 20+ triggers that lead up to an ant...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
7 points

I actually didn't know this, as someone who stutters, I usually do the opposite. I don't think much when talking otherwise the more I think about what I'm going to say the more likely I will stutter, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
5 points

I like that party guy. As a stutterer, I’ve definitely learned to use my words wisely. I don’t waste my breath flippantly. Thanks for the story...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
1 points

I agree we aren’t educated enough. But then again, is there good education on the topic? It’s mostly opinions and theories from small studies. From when I was 5 till I was 15, I was told many differen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
1 points

I completely agree with confidence being a huge factor. But i think you have to think about it differently. I have 0 compultion to stutter when I convince myself that the words I want to say are meani...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 25, 2022
82 points

Your stutter is a superpower

Your stutter is a superpower So I was at this party last night and came across this guy that told me that «your stutter is a superpower». I asked why and he replied with the question «yeah because you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2022
5 points

Has anyone done the McGuire Institute for Stammering/Stuttering? I did it about 7 years ago. It changed my life. They have you do this as a challenge by calling restaurants or hotels and just asking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2022
7 points

Well done. Sounds like a confidence booster. Stammering can dictate the terms of our life path in the form of avoidances; sounds, words and more widely life opportunities and ambitions. It takes coura...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterSep 23, 2022
12 points

My stutter life - in a nut shell

My stutter life - in a nut shell First of all, I'm a severe stutterer. Unlike most stutterers, I always stutter the most out of all PWS in group therapies. I stutter on every word or letter. &#x2...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2022
3 points

So the advice is, not to define yourself as a stutterer. Stuttering is just a small part in your life and your goal is to make it smaller in your mind by not reacting (attaching importance) to trigger...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
postr/StutterSep 22, 2022
11 points

My dad wants to stop my stutter. I don’t.

My dad wants to stop my stutter. I don’t. I’ve had a stutter since i was 6. I’m now verging on 18. I’ve been with it for my whole life and as much as it sucks at times, it’s shaped me into the person ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalMindset shift+2 more