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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

Stuttering is not a disability.People on this subreddit are saying that it causes problems with yourself social life when really it just exposes who you should stay away from. If you meet someone new...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
2 points

I stuttered for 65 years and at 70 I became fully fluent through dealing with my abusive childhood in psychotherapy. Though I’ve been totally fluent in English, my native language, when I speak Spanis...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

I used to be this way. I've gotten in a few alterations, but mainly when I waa younger (about your age). As I got older I grew more comfortable with myself and my stutter. I would still call people o...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
6 points

We have to cut people a wide path. First by accepting that our speech is abnormal. If they divert eye contact early on, it's perfectly normal. Facial expression changes as well. We do have to make up ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
5 points

Hi there. First of all, congrats on being brave enough to ask for help. I stuttered a lot as a kid and it improved as I got older with speech therapy. Can you go to a speech therapist? That would he...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

>*"Without kindness we are nothing but a genetically flawed human beings. The one who will stare into other person's eyes when I am talking. I might not be a settle down material for you."* Woaw I...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
7 points

I honestly felt the same, and still do to an extent, but there are a lot of people out there. I've yet to find a partner but that's more on me being lazy. What I do have are friends who don't make fac...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
3 points

Back when I was a kid and was made to go to church, this lady stuttered (very rare) and volunteered to read the psalm in front of the congregation twice a month. Now, the 37 year old me commends her f...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

I have completely overcome stuttering. However there is still a whisper floating around in my mind on occasion when I may fumble a word like a normal person, but I don’t scan feared words, I don’t blo...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
2 points

I am not even saying that. Like i said people mostly don't care and keep conversation. I just had to say it one time couple years ago in a job interview. I were super nervous and unlocked the beast st...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

The first time I ran into another pws at my family's store yes omg this. I regret how I handled the whole thing wanna just go back in time and hug him 😔...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

This is great advice! I do agree that when you label yourself, you are limiting yourself or telling yourself that you cannot do certain things bc you stutter....

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
3 points

I’m sorry to hear that. Please don’t beat yourself up over it. My stuttering is hereditary, it’s something I’ve dealt with for 35 years and I’ve come to accept it as a part of me. While stuttering isn...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
2 points

I usually stutter badly around people I’m not familiar. While I have moments of disfluency which can be severe, I also have fluent speech once I’m comfortable around people. I typically stutter more w...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

Also front west coast and it's an event for people who stutter in Florida. My speech therapist told me to attend the zoom meeting, to remind me I'm not weird for not being fluent. And remember we're n...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
2 points

It's a disability if you let it be a disability, it's not a disability if you don't let it be a disability....

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
4 points

Recently learnt mine is neurological and prior to learning that. I had given up on life the past 7ish years, cause I thought it was curable. I hated myself so much for not being able to be fluent no m...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
2 points

Nice! Congrats. I’m just blown away at my improvement! I’m literally going out of my way to talk to people because I’ve never been able to do this before! I’m definitely still stuttering at times, b...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
2 points

Oof, I never said it was a blessing full stop. Stuttering voices are beautiful because when one hears it from others, they may have the feeling of camaraderie. Stutterers are not alone. I realize ...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

Isn't it wonderful to finally be able to express every feeling? To me, finally not having to be aware of every word, and every facial expression, lightens the general burdens of life. Congratulatio...

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