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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2016
3 points

Exactly, then not to mention the things attached to it like depression and social anxiety. How can you work if you're trembling in fear because you have to see your co-workers? ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2016
5 points

Thank you, exactly. Its the everyday things that get to us and at times break us. Covert stutterers are so quick to even deny they stutter. If there's nothing to be ashamed about why not let people kn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2016
2 points

It was occasional, maybe if I was nervous and in front of people and it was blocking. Now It's repetitive and I'm stuttering even talking to family. I think it's probably because I've never realized i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2016
4 points

I'm not going to give the same tired bullshit advice of "Don't care about stuttering!, put yourself out there!" because everyone knows that advice is shit and doesn't have a foot in reality for most. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2016
1 points

Oh my. Me too, people hate when I start to tell a story. They'll find excuses to stop me. 😞 ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
2 points

Any time! Once you realize this and start to apply it, you'll probably find that is pretty universally true. The more you react/over react to a mistake (or something you perceive as a mistake) the mo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
2 points

Yeah, I never really realized it until pretty recently too. No ones ever commented on it though, just something I slowly noticed....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
2 points

I agree. If you react to it other people are more likely to react to your reaction, rather than the stutter itself. I actually never thought about this before, thanks! ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
1 points

I try to talk about it to my friends too to make myself more comfortable with it, but it seems like they get really awkward and uncomfortable when I bring it up :-/...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
1 points

Same here. It's been getting worse for me tough. I didn't really realize I stutter until a few months ago, but someone was telling me I stutter a lot. Then someone else mentioned it. I'm getting more ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 21, 2016
9 points

Stuttering/Anxiety

Stuttering/Anxiety My stuttering goes to overdrive when I am explaining something to my friends or just hanging out with my friends in general. I am absolutely horrible at telling stories as you can i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2016
2 points

Just do what you can. Stuttering to me is a rather embarrassing condition to have so it has changed the way that I view the world. I've never met another stutterer in my life so I can't say that I kno...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2016
3 points

One of the worst things a stutterer can do is react to a stutter. I know it's frustrating and embarrassing but the more negatively you react, the more attention you draw to the fact that it's happeni...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 11, 2016
3 points

Feel crappy

Feel crappy Just wanted to vent with those who will understand. I'm a chef and I was at work yesterday. The server asked how many minutes until a product would be ready (I wasn't late with it, he was...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2016
1 points

Couldn't have put it better myself. Maybe everyone else is just really good at hiding it? Because they seem to be happy and I'm here just struggling to keep going through this. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2016
1 points

I think about it more and more as I grow older. I've slowly come to accept my stutter but that doesn't always make it easier to live day by day. So much of the adverse effects of stuttering is psychol...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2016
2 points

I've found it to be a significant hindrance in my life. I'm in my mid-forties now, and I've stuttered mildly since I was about eight years old. The problem that I've seen is that people misconstrue ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerEnvironmental Triggers
postr/StutterMay 2, 2016
46 points

severe covert stutter here - and today I did something amazing

severe covert stutter here - and today I did something amazing i asked a girl to prom WOOOH most of you (maybe all) don't even care but I'm just so happy right now. I asked her after class and even ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2016
3 points

I hated and denied my stutter when I was in high school to the point of paranoia. If you think your stutter is negatively affecting your ability to have a job and family then go to a university that ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2016
1 points

I can only speak from experience when I say that please please please don't send ur 2 year old to speech therapy or make him self conscious of his stutter most kids until 8-9 years old won't even teas...

Parent & CaregiverTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Treatment DecisionsSeeking TherapyShame & Embarrassment