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postr/StutterOct 1, 2019
114 points

Gave a speech as best man at my best friends wedding. Stutter free.

Gave a speech as best man at my best friends wedding. Stutter free. Just found this sub and needed to post this story to help anybody out in here. So I'm life long stutterer and have zero shame about...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2019
1 points

The past couple years I've been afraid to open my mouth in public, with friends or even with family. I just diddnt want people to know that I stuttered. People always mistake me for being a shy kid wh...

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postr/StutterOct 1, 2019
20 points

My stutter is starting to take over my life. Is there a way to overcome it. Here is my story.

My stutter is starting to take over my life. Is there a way to overcome it. Here is my story. Hi I am 18 years old and I have been stuttering since i was around 11. Until I was around 15 I never reall...

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2019
43 points

I conquered one big fear today and I now I kinda feel hopeful for the future

I conquered one big fear today and I now I kinda feel hopeful for the future I just want to share that I’ve been stuttering my whole life. I had a stutter when I was in elementary school, then when I ...

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postr/StutterSep 26, 2019
26 points

Been job searching for two years

Been job searching for two years Hello everyone. This is my first post and I am feeling defeated. I'm 30 years old have worked in digital communications for seven years. I've been searching for a new ...

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postr/StutterSep 26, 2019
5 points

I made a throwaway to post this.

I made a throwaway to post this. *this is a draft for a personal statement I was going to submit for uni applications, but I dont think I'll use this one. I dont know why, but I felt compelled to shar...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
2 points

But be careful, i use the 'humm' and i found myself in a cycle with it, like the only thing it cames out of my mouth is 'humm'....

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
-3 points

Use a lot of uhh and umm, it'll help you in the long run. Also, take long pauses so you don't have to talk much...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

So I speak mostly fluently now but it takes me so much effort that I keep dreaming of not talking at all :-) Is it a progress??...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

I find face to face way easier. It's a lot harder for people to cut me off and talk over me when I'm right in front of them...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

I’m more self conscious about the weird faces I make while stuttering than the stuttering itself, hence my preference of the drive through....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

It’s still better than stuttering face to face in my opinion, so while it’s unpleasant and presents a challenge I utilize the drive through more often than going inside....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

Absolutely. I think the worst mistake a person who stutters can make is that it bothers the audience. The vast majority of people, even strangers, aren't bothered by it nearly as much as we think....

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postr/StutterSep 23, 2019
12 points

Did I make a wrong decision?

Did I make a wrong decision? 32 M here. First, let me just say how great it feels to come to this forum, even just to lurk around. I have been stuttering since childhood. My stuttering is a bit inco...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
12 points

I have my own opinions on stretching but definitely do not do the humming thing. You're introducing more unnatural junk behaviors into your speech that might work at first and then fail other times. T...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
5 points

I'm also in leadership at a tech company. I agree that small talk is painful but I work remote so I get out of doing most of that. I also lead a group of developers who do not like to engage in any fo...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
3 points

I'm late 30s, entrenched in the corporate world, have been promoted multiple times despite my stutter. I, too, stutter most in front of my managers, but not nearly as much as I used to. I think the s...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
3 points

It helped me, too. When I'm silently whispering/articulating the words to myself before speaking, I speak more fluently (of course that works better when e.g. you're using the phone because in a real ...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
1 points

Brilliant man, keep going! You’ll find that the more you push out of your comfort zones, the fear will lessen and your speech will improve!...

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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2019
1 points

Person who stutters became the term of choice because you're not just a stutterer. A lot of pws do live with that as their core identity but there is so much more to them, just like there is more to a...

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