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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
1 points

19 M and my social anxiety is so bad i dont even know what to say. I cant start a conversation or maintain one. Very few friendships which last really short. No friend group, no female friends and of ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

😂he lived half of his life already and it's too late to make friends cuz most people have established friend groups already and don't really have the time to socialize since they have families and ot...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
0 points

I feel the same. Also you have a few English errors. I'm a native speaker and my grammar sucks cuz I don't know how to use punctuation lol. But you said " I don't have any good advice to stutters." It...

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Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
-3 points

Ask yourself why God cursed your life with a stutter. And sir Maybe I want to give up instead of fucking staring down a shotgun barrel on my 30th birthday wondering when the fuck I'ma have a friend. I...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
8 points

Well that's the main reason i don't write here, besides my bad english (i'm from spain). I'm a loser too, my life is sad and don't have any good advice to stutters. 40 years, no friends, live alone, v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2023
40 points

Am I the only one…

Am I the only one… who is an older stutterer and has a miserable life? It seems like everybody on here that is over 30 always responds to posts with I have a wife, three kids, big house, make 6 figure...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
1 points

Idk man, I tried fighting it but my insecurities and anxiety comes back twice as bad. So I gave up on a social life.😕...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
1 points

I will say it has been the major reason why I'm soo introverted and mostly isolated. I try to avoid speaking situations as much as possible. That should count as a "weak personality" right because it ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
-3 points

All of these people in the comments giving you shitty advice and dumb pep talks "Oh just use chatGPT" "Just wait I was the same in college" blah blah Your stutter will never get better and you wi...

Social & Relationships
Loneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Yep one of the worse things is not been able to hold a decent conversation with close family, it hurts so much.. I have two sons who I never really sat down and had a good old conversation with.. I'm...

Social & Relationships
Family Support & ConflictLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
2 points

Yep because when you talk about your stutter, you are moving away the barrier between you and the listener. You realizing that listener is "safe to speak" and you are creating a new safe space. This g...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersExperiential Association+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Yep, stuttering can be so tiring physically, mentally, emotionally... that's why I would rather be alone than interact with people. 😞...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJul 8, 2023
12 points

Feeling overwhelmed/vent post

Feeling overwhelmed/vent post TW (suicide): hey all, hope you are all doing well. I don’t want to spread any negativity, but I have no other place to vent. For some reason, over the last couple of d...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
4 points

Really and your comment is getting no attention.😡 that pisses me the fuck off man. YOUR OVER HERE LIVING IN HELL WHILE EVERYONE SAYS DONT LET IT GET TO YOU. Yeah man ngl if it took me over 30 seconds...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
1 points

also f22. im so sorry youre feeling pressured into something you don’t want to do. even if you were ace or lesbian or something other then attracted to men, that’s none of their business to be putti...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
8 points

yes. i would say i have a mild to moderate stutter. ive always had a couple of friends in school, but lost contact with all of them as i got older. i have put sports (running) and trying to maintain a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
1 points

I think it naturally made me introverted. At times I can ve very unhealthy introverted. I've been on dates where the girl refuses to believe I am introverted tho. I tend to have good first dates dispi...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceLoneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
4 points

Yes. No social life at all. My stutter is at a level that i just resort to typing what i have to say so i don't get along with anyone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
16 points

Yes and its made me fuck up so many things in my life. I became a loner in middle and high school. I was the 'weird' kid in high school. I started using drugs. I barely graduated high school with C's ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Loneliness & IsolationAvoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
7 points

Like being socially awkward and avoid interacting with people and not making new friends. and also missing a lot of opportunities in your life because of stuttering....

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Loneliness & IsolationEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution