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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
9 points

It’s never easy to guess. At moments i wanted people to help me finish my sentence and other moments i wanted to finish them myself. Under no circumstances however do i want people to say “calm down” ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

Not in a relationship right now, but reading some of these threads made me realized that I’m too hard on my self. Not a fan being judged for my speech impediment, but the person who judges me for my s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 11, 2024
13 points

Please help me decide

Please help me decide Hi everyone! Im a highschool student and basically every homeroom our teacher makes two students tell the latest news, they go infront and recite it. Infront of everyone. And on...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 11, 2024
1 points

I need help on deciding something.

I need help on deciding something. Hi everyone! Im a highschool student and basically every homeroom our teacher makes two students tell the latest news, they go infront and recite it. Infront of ever...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I think I'm a lot more extroverted than I ever expected to be. I was homeschooled growing up and very socially isolated (I wonder if that made my stutter worse from lack of practice talking to people....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

Yeah, some people thought I was secretive and oddly quiet, but others thought the exact opposite, as I would often break the ice and liven up conversations. It depends on the severity of my stutter: s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

Do you think that happened from the anesthesia or the surgery since the tonsils are so close to the vocal cords? Or maybe psychological stress from the surgery itself?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

This is helpful but when you meet people from the very native place you belong to, if you change your accent or tone you come across as someone who is pretending or being haughty. I usually fall into ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

I'm 38 years old, father of two. I still stutter when meeting new people. Just today I was having an almost successful convo until he asked my name. I couldn't and went on a Rr. Rr aa. Aa stuttering s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2024
23 points

What is your TRUE personality like?

What is your TRUE personality like? I feel like I'm one of those people who were unfortunate enough to be given a stutter, but are still themselves. Like, I've been complimented on my ability to not l...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/stutteringApr 10, 2024
3 points

Does it get easier?

Does it get easier? 29 F here I’ve had a stutter my whole life, but recently maybe due to stress it has increased especially when I have to give presentations at school. I’m about to finish get my deg...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

Same! I told him that the time commitment and copay for the appointments and MRI would be more stressful than the uncertainty!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

Interesting, it does sound like both of our stutters could be stress related! I think I'm just struggling with the head pains and piecing together pieces that don't fit... Plus I really don't enjoy ge...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

The part that helped me the most was the confidence and support my therapist gave me. It turns out that a lot of what was causing my stutter was my crippling self-confidence and social anxiety. Yes, I...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

This has happened to me over the past few months. I am in my late-20s, and I never struggled with stuttering or similar speech issues in adulthood before, though I did need to work with a speech patho...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

I like your writing style, anyway, i’ve been thinking about this all of my life. You know when you speak to someone there’s all this information to be processed - in the form of a person, topic of con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
3 points

If stutter is psychological i.e. "it's all in your head" i.e. if you only stutter when you feel the consequences of stuttering will be high, then nothing external can help you yet because you don't ac...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

Sometimes for me the feeling of knowing you're observed used to trigger more of my stuttering, like you were saying. At least when I was younger this had an effect on me for sure. Brains are complic...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterApr 10, 2024
8 points

Struggling With Emotional Communication

Struggling With Emotional Communication I struggle with approaching new things because I experience immense anxiety while actually engaging in them. This anxiety often surfaces when I interact with p...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+2 more
postr/StutterApr 9, 2024
20 points

Possible Treatment For Stuttering

Possible Treatment For Stuttering After deep diving and doing research, I stumbled upon a fascinating video (attached below). This led me down a path to explore TMS and it’s application. If you can d...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more