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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

You have every right to be pissy. Try not to carry it over to the next guy. You are worthy of greatness just because you’re you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

Everyone figures out their own way to deal with their stutter - or they don't. I've met 3 extremely successful older people - an account manager at Ogilvy, a head of a department within the federal re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/CursingStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

Be patient. Be supportive. Absolutely do not finish their words, fill them in, make then feel rushed. If you read some of the posts in this community you're going to find a lot of people are struggl...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
2 points

Gosh it's horrible... the fear, anxiety, depression. Your self esteem and confidence also suffers greatly. I have lived with the crippling fear of appearing stupid/slow.. anytime I open my mouth. I ag...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2023
4 points

Hey... I dont have the experience but just wanted to give you courage. Give it a try! If that is something you are passion about go for it. It is always smart to leave you confort zone. Maybe you wi...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
6 points

I learned a technique called 'soft touch' or something like that. It's like really softly touching your lips when saying the letter you want to say. I'm sure there are video's about it on yt. That rea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
2 points

Yup, turn 40 next week. Life is good. Recent sobriety has me seeing much-needed, new adventures in life such as owning a home and the possibility of a new, more satisfying job. I don't think I imagi...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationSeverity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
5 points

I'm 35. Life has turned out differently than I would have expected. But I'm happily married and am currently a stay at home Dad for my amazing 1 year old. It might not be what I expected, but in many ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
3 points

I stutter all the time - every sentence, with others, with dogs, alone, but never in my mind. It gets easier, brother!...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
3 points

38(M) here. Married with 1 kid, 2 dogs, working for a major oil company, homeowner on the ocean. I wish I could tell my 20 year old self that I’d be ok, it would’ve saved me so much anxiety. Things ge...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
4 points

39, gonna be 40 in June ..stuttered my whole life...doing good, started tattooing at 17 and been doing it ever since. For the most part it's cool and when it's not I say fuck it...married and loving l...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
12 points

There’s no sense in creating another issue by using force. I used to do that when I was a child. Now I do anything I can to work around them, such as Pausing for a few seconds, using synonyms, deflect...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
2 points

40, and it gets better. I have everything a normal person who doesn't stutter has. It just takes knowing that you're in control of your life, not Your fluency....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
1 points

Absolutely this happens to many stutters including myself at 40 , they don't care of stuttering at all & it's impact would have reduced so much at 40. Experience & maturity level & support...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
1 points

Early thirties, much much less anxiety and depression (therapy and antidepressants helped too). No suicidal thoughts, and I was suicidal in my teens-early twenties. It gets better. No relationship but...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationStress & Fight/FlightSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
5 points

In my late 30s too. 20s were miserable, full of depression, anxiety, etc. Still a struggle sometimes but for the most part I’ve been able to manage it better. Relationships wise, I haven’t had much l...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
18 points

As a married, 36 year old I just wish I could tell all the younger people in this sub to just chill. Don’t stress over things you cannot control and try and work on the things you do have control over...

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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
7 points

Don’t you wish you could go back and tell your younger self to not let stuttering play such a big role in your emotional well being?...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
15 points

I'm in my late 30s and turned my life around quite well compared to my 20s. Back then I was depressed, dropped out of college and lived with my parents. Now I'm in a steady relationship, have a good s...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
2 points

I don't know how old you are, but when I was younger, the stuttering was so bad I could barely speak in most situations. I am now almost 39 and outside of some fringe cases at work and the occasional...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightHope & Motivation