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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
2 points

When I am talking myself I rarely stutter. I also talk to myself ALOT because when I was younger I was bothered by silence whenever I was alone so I decided to fill it with my thoughts. This habit ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
7 points

When you're talking to others, you're *communicating*, in addition to just speaking.   When you talk to yourself, you already know your message well in advance - it was already in your hea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2018
1 points

Very good insight and thank you, brethren. This may sound crazy but when I started working for this company, I had a warehouse gig and there were something like 20 or so employees. That was in 2010 an...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2018
4 points

woah, we are brothers from another mother! i am also 30, male, life-long stutterer, and i started a new job in june. boy, it was (is) tough -- meeting tons of new people, new environment, my blocking...

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postr/StutterJan 29, 2018
16 points

Social anxiety and stutter getting worse

Social anxiety and stutter getting worse First time posting in this sub so howdy everyone. 30 year old male and I've stuttered all my life. I never really cared about it up until when adulthood real...

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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
4 points

So, your question is complicated. Most people do have dysfluencies in their regular speech. 99% of people are so slight that most won't notice. Many children will see their stuttering decrease throu...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2018
1 points

For me, if I'm blocking on a word, I'm not going to get it. I restart my sentence (or part of my sentence) and try to push through it. The issue is that this is a coping mechanism as they say in SLP (...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
2 points

I'm very glad you decided to stay in the class! I have an issue particularly with blocking in classroom settings. I have always avoided taking classes that require a lot of speaking in front of the wh...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 17, 2018
9 points

My Stutter and Me

My Stutter and Me Everybodies stutter is different, and every stutterer is different. I think about these words now as I ponder about my life as a stutterer. I guess I should explain myself, or rath...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightExperiential Association+1 more
postr/StutterJan 13, 2018
2 points

Best way to help my stutter?

Best way to help my stutter? I have a problem when I am talking, I loose my breath and it sounds like I have the hiccups. Someone told me online it could be dysrythmic phonation and I think it could b...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJan 9, 2018
61 points

40 year old stutterer

40 year old stutterer Hey guys (and gals). I'm so glad I found this subreddit! I turned 40 last year and have stuttered for as long as I remember. My uncle stutters too so in my case it's probably ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

My 2cents. Start a cleaning company. If you have any family member or close friend that will handle the “talking/ setting up appointments” part, all you would have to do is basically the cleaning. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2017
3 points

No need to feel like a douche, you did reply, albeit quietly. I'm sure cab drivers have to deal with genuine douches all the time. I sometimes do the same, though rather than speaking quietly I take ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
1 points

More annoying for me is how, on occasion I just can speak very very clearly in social interactions. No problems with word retrieval at all, no tension. At those times it's like something switched in m...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2017
2 points

I came here looking for exactly this. I do this all the time. I had myself convinced that it was more of a memory ish issue, (I watch too much Grey's Anatomy and I am convinced that I will have alzhei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2017
3 points

You seem to contradict yourself. If your not afraid of speaking why would a "bad" stutter day keep you from answering questions in class? And what do you mean by being the smartest person in the room?...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2017
2 points

I’m going to try this. I hate having to slow down. It’s really distracting and I sometimes lose my train of thought entirely. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2017
2 points

>slow down and think That does help, because it means that I'm making a conscious effort to speak. I'm really jealous of all my friends who can just talk without really putting any effort into it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2017
1 points

The key is not to think about stuttering, or at least not to think in terms of it. Instead of thinking "don't stutter" which lends itself to avoidance behaviors, focus on the words you're about to say...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2017
1 points

Slowing down your thoughts do help. Meditating is a great way to build the habit of slower, and more conscious, thinking. ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingOverthinking & Monitoring