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postr/StutterMay 1, 2024
14 points

I hate this

I hate this I try to speak but I can’t breath correctly when I try to breathe correctly but when I do try to breathe correctly I over breathe and almost always hate myself. I tried to be normal and ta...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
3 points

>I’m still thinking about it 24/7. Start making an active effort to stop that sort of thinking. Every time you find yourself thinking about your stuttering in an anticipatory or negative manner, Tell...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 1, 2024
3 points

A vent post but I wanna know if Anyone relates

A vent post but I wanna know if Anyone relates So I’ve had two years of mandarin like I can write it and I can recognize Chinese characters but I can’t speak it. I’ve studied German for less time tha...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
26 points

1. That I'm worth more than not being able to speak like everyone else. 2. Most people don't care that I stutter and some even don't notice it even lmao. 3. That I'm trying to be a perfectionist w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

Great reply! You said: "*For example there's been many times when I'm preparing to talk to someone, I say what I want to say 5 to 8 times under my breath and I will say it perfectly each time but as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

First I just want to say I really appreciate you responding to my post. For my thoughts. I see where you are getting at and it actually was/is a big concern of mines that I might be making it worse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

You stutter more if people can hear you. If 'people hearing you' is your trigger, then let's ask the question: Why does people hearing us trigger stuttering? (obviously, the answer is very unique to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 30, 2024
4 points

I guess I'm just looking for people's opinions

I guess I'm just looking for people's opinions I've noticed I stutter significantly more when I'm talking to people or when I think someone can hear me, even if it's someone I'm comfortable with lik...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
1 points

I have chronic pain, tinnitus, RLS, TMD, probably OSA, social phobia and depression, to name a few.  + I'm gay. Single for whole life (22M)....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
1 points

I know this is an old post but I just came across it while searching for yips in this subreddit. At least for me the answer is a resounding YES. When alone in a room, I am fluent and have no speech bl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterApr 30, 2024
11 points

Jobs that Work with Customers (Cashier, etc)

Jobs that Work with Customers (Cashier, etc) Hey guys, I recently started a job as a cashier, and I stuttered a lot while speaking to customers on my first day. I wanted to ask if anyone works in simi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
2 points

At the very end of it they took me aside and had me read a paper with a couple of paragraphs on it. I knew what it was so that didn’t help my anxiety and as you could guess I didn’t do well....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 29, 2024
19 points

Joining Military

Joining Military As of the last few years I have been thinking about enlisting either airforce or army. I stutter, and its making me not wanna join out of the fact I am afraid of stuttering in front ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterApr 29, 2024
18 points

Best Man Speech Complete!

Best Man Speech Complete! I recently what tasked with being best man in my friends wedding. This meant having to do the dreaded best man speech which I thought I wouldn’t ever have to do as someone wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 29, 2024
80 points

I just had the worst presentation in my life

I just had the worst presentation in my life It was an over 20 minute long presenation. Days before my presentation date I told my teacher about my social anxiety and that I have a terrible stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
3 points

![gif](giphy|mGgbCbX1bvyNBWabC9|downsized) World after and before people judging at our stutter. Just give your best !! Best of luck 🔥...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
3 points

Woaw amazing! We need more posts like these! >"*Stuttering can be traumatic, I personally believe it can bring about symptoms of C-PTSD. These moments of powerlessness are actually traumatic. If yo...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

You will! If I can do it, I’m sure you definitely can. The confidence came at the end for me. I went in with extreme anxiety. It’s not so scary in the end. I would say research beforehand of a relativ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

Need insight on how to heal

Need insight on how to heal I’m excited to say that I have coped with my stutter. Although I wouldn’t call it a stutter, it clinically is. It’s more like large speech pauses where I sort of have thes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

I will have anxiety talking to strangers other than that i would be fine too. And also, looking at your profile picture, are you pakistani?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment