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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
9 points

I feel you man. I want to be social at work but my stutter is embarrassing...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2019
3 points

I think that's maybe on of my least favorite parts about stuttering is that it makes me seem (and feel) less intelligent sometimes....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2019
3 points

Most embarrassing moment for me when someone asks my name. I am a covert stutterer but when someone asks my name..its like I feel embarrassment that everyone would know my secret....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2019
2 points

Exactly!!! It almost feels like a betrayal because “wait... you’re supposed to accept me for who I am! All this time you’ve wanted me to change?” I take it way personally. And like I said, I *know* th...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2019
1 points

I agree with the comment stating that it's angering to hear a criticism about yourself. I really don't like it when people ask me, 'have you tried anything to stop stuttering?' because it makes you fe...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerAdvice RequestsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2019
4 points

Criticizing yourself is one thing; hearing criticism from someone else is totally different. This is pretty much true for any trait you could name. Like, I might think my nose looks ugly. I might eve...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
6 points

It's the pride in you. You know you need help, but you don't want to seem incompetent. I get it. However, you gotta kill this mentality....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2019
1 points

I think you might be being too harsh on yourself. People can be a lot more understanding of people with issues communicating than you think. The older I get the more I realize a lot of our embarrassme...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2019
2 points

I second this advice. When I would punish myself physically after stuttering, such as cutting, I was truly punishing myself for my behavior because I thought it was my fault that I was stuttering or b...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2019
1 points

I haven't had experiences with teachers in particular calling out or making fun of my stutter - but during my time at school, I had many family members and also friends really poke fun at my speech. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
5 points

Dude. You just described my life. I felt every single word you said. I experienced what you experienced. I get severe speech-blocks like 80% of the time. I have grown very numb and insensitive over t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 2, 2019
52 points

my stutter ruined everything.

my stutter ruined everything. having a speech impediment has ruined my life. i knew life wouldn't be easy having one, but its just unbearable, and its mentally defeated me. i had a bad experience one ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
6 points

People are so insensitive that people actually do stutter... it upsets me that people view it as a joke, but I try not to take it personally. Kinda hard some days...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 2, 2019
25 points

How does it make you feel when people use the joke/phrase “did i stutter?”

How does it make you feel when people use the joke/phrase “did i stutter?” I never say anything but sometimes I wish people wouldn’t be so insensitive, it sometimes makes me feel upset...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
3 points

But i feel embarrassed about my stutter and scared to tel anyone...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
3 points

I would never have to fear rounds anymore and I would never have to hear the nasty comments/gestures from the residents. It would be freeing, God!...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 30, 2019
11 points

Anybody with a sales related job?

Anybody with a sales related job? So I’ve had to get jobs my whole life that require no customer service. I absolutely hate it but any time I try to talk to customers it ends up terrible and I want to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterApr 30, 2019
27 points

Stuttering has had a traumatic effect on my self-esteem as a whole.

Stuttering has had a traumatic effect on my self-esteem as a whole. [deleted]...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterApr 29, 2019
27 points

Had a terrible stutter during interview today :(

Had a terrible stutter during interview today :( Bombed the interview feeling so down right now. What have I done to deserve this :(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterApr 29, 2019
18 points

Overcoming school trauma

Overcoming school trauma I’ve always had a stutter but as I’ve gotten older it’s gotten much better. My main issue is that in primary school, anytime a teacher made me say my name out loud I would stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+3 more