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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2022
2 points

Friends and family are fine. I had expected my kids to, like most kids, stutter at some point but it gutted me the first time (my kids are 6,4,2 and a month) it happened. She’s since grown out of it...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
2 points

Good that you were able to overcome most of it. Your setting a good example to your godson, that it's possible. Did it affect you in social situations? As in the aspect of making friends, finding...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2021
3 points

Thanks so much for your thoughtful and very mature response! I don’t shutter that often with my boyfriend and my friends. I’m more fluent with my everyone except my family. For some reason, I shutte...

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postr/StutterDec 26, 2021
19 points

I wasn’t able to talk to my grandpa

I wasn’t able to talk to my grandpa I couldn’t really communicate with my grandpa in the last few years since his hearing got worse. I didn’t really talk to him apart from saying hello and bye. I used...

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postr/StutterNov 27, 2021
29 points

My stutter is destroying my relationship with my family, and I don't know what to do

My stutter is destroying my relationship with my family, and I don't know what to do ^((English is not my first language)) Basically I can't have any conversation with my parents, I feel like my s...

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postr/StutterNov 22, 2021
19 points

Just venting about saying names...

Just venting about saying names... So I stutter and my 4 year old has apraxia so he can't really talk much. I ran into my neighbor in the back. It's only the second time I talked to him in 4 years. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
1 points

Nah it's kind of a dysfunctional environment when I'm around them. Parents constantly fighting, and either finishing my sentences or speaking over me when I'm stuck on a word. Which I know contributes...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
2 points

My stuttering comes on worse speaking to family than strangers...

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Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
1 points

Do you stutter badly when you talk to your mother ,siblings and Dad?...

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Family Support & Conflict
postr/StutterOct 30, 2021
15 points

I only stutter with people I'm close with

I only stutter with people I'm close with Well, I've been struggling with my stutter for most of my life (or at least as long as I can remember). It's never been that big of a deal for me though mostl...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2021
1 points

Listen, I feel for you. My Dad loved me very much and he too used to give me hard time for my stutter. Then one day he stopped. Somebody must have spoken to him about it. Maybe you can arrange such th...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
2 points

My own mom made fun of my stuttering for whole of my life. I didn't realise it how profound effect it had on me until recently. I'm almost 28 years old. I hate her now to the core. Instead of taking c...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
2 points

This is horrible to deal with from a father. All you can do is try to educate him about stuttering, send him videos, approach him in a one on one conversation and voice what he does that hurts you. I...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
1 points

You have to let him know how you feel it’s a difficult conversation to have but if you don’t tell him how it makes you feel he’s gonna keep doing it which is not ok you deserve patience and understand...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
7 points

It’s his dad Seems like he just doesn’t have the patience which is just ridiculous to not be understanding to your own child....

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Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
4 points

Oh my god that's horrible like I really don't want to say anything bad about your dad but Jesus that's really unacceptable. To answer your question, I think it depends on how You're approaching this....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
12 points

sorry you’re dealing w this 😐 unfortunately, some ppl do and say hurtful things (usually from a place of insecurity and unhealed traumas). know those behaviors are a reflection of him and not you, a...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2021
19 points

Guys I’m curios how you deal with a dad that he can’t hear you when you stutter or when he offends you because you can not speak fluently, my father finds it very difficult to get used to this, although he does not always live with me but when he comes on vacation it gives me a lot of stress

Guys I’m curios how you deal with a dad that he can’t hear you when you stutter or when he offends you because you can not speak fluently, my father finds it very difficult to get used to this, althou...

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postr/StutterOct 15, 2021
21 points

Parents don't understand my stutter. Making me do all the phone calling [VENT]

Parents don't understand my stutter. Making me do all the phone calling [VENT] My parents doesn't seem to understand my stutter. I come from an Asian household. And it just stresses me out. So our hou...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
4 points

Normalize non fluent speech, otherwise he will start to think that there is something wrong with him, then everytime he speaks he will think he will stutter, causing him fear and anxiety. The best w...

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