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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2016
3 points

Welcome! And if I may advise you shortly, don't go this avoidance path.. It's just gonna get worse. The avoidance techniques will grow so will your fear of speaking/stuttering and after a while the gu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2016
2 points

"I am just so fed up with myself" Oh Sam, i know so well that feeling. Stuttering makes me want to [facepalm](http://replygif.net/i/114.gif) myself :p. I often thought to quit my new job (iam a libra...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2016
4 points

Stuttering is one of the most frustrating, embarrassing, depressing things on the planet brother. I know how you feel. I've been at my job for a little over a year now and did real well my first year....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterAug 16, 2016
13 points

Just started a new job...

Just started a new job... Honestly, the whole situation should be stressful for me and it's a huge company with people everywhere but I honestly (consciously) don't care if I stutter in front of them ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2016
2 points

Actually, I moved to Korea from California 3 years ago and I dont remeber stuttering back at the states. It started when I came to Korean and started going to school. The environment and everything is...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2016
1 points

Thank you all. And yes, as you say Claypigeon, i'am drawing my lack-of-value from my stutter, and this is the problem, despite my efforts (i have a job, hobbies, some friends), my stuttering has the s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2016
1 points

Same here, i understand you perfectly. I have so little experience that I do not even know where to start, sentimentally speaking. I realize, now, the waste... The awful filing of waste make me sick ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2016
1 points

I also hate the stuttering aspect as well. It takes too much energy to say anything....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2016
5 points

I feel you. I realized it became a vicious cycle in my daily life now. Confident > fluent > feeling good > stutters > embarrassed > shatters confidence > depression. Then eventuall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 11, 2016
18 points

Self esteem got completely crushed today........FML

Self esteem got completely crushed today........FML Long story short I stuttered like crazy today in the multiple interactions that I had. Many times I was interrupted or just plain simply ignored. I ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2016
3 points

It feels like that right now. It consumes a lot of your time, energy and thoughts. We focus so much on it because it causes so much detriment to our lives. My statement still stands though. We do this...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
3 points

Obviously we have problems other than our stuttering. In my case, stuttering is the root cause for those additional problems. Everyone's experience with stuttering is different, Some people have amaz...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
1 points

What I meant to say was, there's no guaranteed amount of effect. It's not like work or sports in that regard (and even those aren't all that automatic, but I get what you mean). "Necessary" is suppose...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
1 points

Just to be sure: I wasn't trying to put you down by using the term "visitor" - I merely looked for a neutral sounding word describing all the people who frequent this place. Oh, and I guess my use of...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2016
10 points

Changing stuttering habits takes time, dedication, effort and a lot of other traits. It means coming out of one's comfort zone and making a complete change of lifestyle. We're all on our own journeys...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
4 points

I think family might reinforce those negative beliefs we have about ourselves, especially if that's the place they were created. Family members puts us in certain roles almost instantly, I mean I stil...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFamily Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
2 points

This more than anything. I mean we're all most likely never going to be fluent the same way as non stutterers. So why concentrate on it? This is an extreme example but people who are blind don't conce...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2016
1 points

Literally. It's a snowball for me, if Im stuttering like crazy, I seclude myself and turn really pessimistic. Next day, I'm fucking great and act normal, not even consitering my speech or how I'm acti...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2016
1 points

Hey there. I'm a bit of a lone wolf myself. With my work, I travel a lot so I end up doing things by my self sometimes. Going to a restaurant, show, movie, etc. I've gotten used to it. I do have a sma...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationDating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 28, 2016
22 points

Anyone completely alone?

Anyone completely alone? My entire life, I've been going through the the motions you're supposed to go through. Go to school, get good grades, go to university, land yourself a job. Everyone single on...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency