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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
2 points

Listen to me. Just because we stutter, it does not mean we are not deserving of relationships like everyone else. I am in my 40’s and I am single by choice. But, do I choose to be single (at least for...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
3 points

It’s not easy. The sad truth is that you have to just keep trying, and endure as much rejection as necessary, before you find someone who won’t judge you for your stutter. When you finally find that p...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
14 points

Stop. Your stutter is not the reason you don’t have a relationship. It’s your self esteem and attitude towards your stutter that prevents you from getting into a relationship....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
10 points

Just be yourself. It’s fascinating that my stutter was “silent” when I began conversing with my wife. I rarely stuttered while talking to her, and even when I did have a slight stutter, she always fou...

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postr/StutterJul 8, 2025
17 points

How am I supposed to get a gf at 21M?

How am I supposed to get a gf at 21M? I've never dated or hardly done much because of my stutter and me feeling not deserving of love like that and I don't know how other stutterers even do it?...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
1 points

This reminds me that couple of women I’ve been romantically involved with either seriously or casually have told me they actually like the stutter. I always ask why but have never been given an answer...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
1 points

At the bar once ordering a drink, was chatting with a lady next to me. Stammered on a few words. She asked if my stammering was my way of hitting on her…. If only lady, if only…...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2025
4 points

I’m 22 years old and I deal with a very severe stammer as well. I pretty much relate to every single thing you’ve said. Sometimes my family will still order food for me, make phone calls for me, or ac...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2025
2 points

I can’t say this with certainty but don’t hate my comment at first glance. I think socially, especially in intimate relationships and for job security stuttering tends to be worse for me due to gender...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2025
2 points

It’s like a lottery honestly, it’s horrible. Worst thing is as well if you’re telling someone your name that’s also that persons first impression of you as well. 😭...

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postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
6 points

A little lost on finding a relationship

A little lost on finding a relationship Hello all i hope everyone is well. Been feeling down these few past months more than i normally feel and it’s due to stressing about my future, finding a career...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
1 points

I am a girl and I stutter, the truth is that I have only met one guy who stutters that I was attracted to, he was cute I guess. but the fact that the girl is a stutterer does not guarantee that you wi...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
2 points

My fiancé stutters. When we met, he had a very confident attitude. Whenever someone tried to finish his sentences, he would politely but firmly say, "I don't like it when you do that." This was the fi...

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commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
1 points

Nah bro thy all were so friendly and cooperative when we met then thy all knew i hve stmering and suddenly thy all lost respect,...

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commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
1 points

Bro like ppl who i met newly were so close to me until they knew i had stammering, idk bro it feels empty...

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commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
2 points

I am an extroverted person who stutters, from all my experiences and being on both sides, most people see stuttering as endearing, the only time people made fun of my stutter was when I was in middle ...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
4 points

A partner won't fix your problems with yourself - I learned that one the hard way! Thought everything would get better if I could finally just get a gf. Finally get into a relationship at 25y/o - a co...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
3 points

I have a stutter and my wife doesn't. I won her over with what I bring to the table. Don't let it block you from achieving anything....

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
1 points

I think men who stutter are more patient and understanding — and kinder. Maybe I’m biased because I stutter as well, though I’m a woman. It’s a struggle especially at a young age. I’m 22, starting den...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
1 points

Do men care if their wife's stutter? Are we talking about men who stutter themselves or non-stuttering men? If it's the former, many would find it a breathe of fresh air if they're wife also stutter...

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