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commentr/StutterMar 30, 2017
1 points

I'm perfectly fine with communication at work. And that is the only thing that matters to me. There has to be a point for me to talk, otherwise I see it as a waste of time and energy. I do not have ...

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commentr/StutterMar 29, 2017
1 points

>Now that my stutter is the worst it's ever been and my mental health being the worst it's ever been it's almost unfathomable to think of trying anything. I'm sorry to hear that and I as well as m...

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postr/StutterMar 29, 2017
11 points

How do you guys manage to live in this world ?

How do you guys manage to live in this world ? When I was young , hanging out with many friends but avoided to say the words which might stuttered me and I am good at saying funny stuff so I have a lo...

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commentr/StutterMar 27, 2017
3 points

Right....I don't want to go around forever about this, but you don't believe it could be that by the time you had that job, by the time you were able to even *think* about doing a job that would force...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2017
7 points

I know the pain you are feeling. Last year i reached absolute rock bottom. Hell really does exist. I have been stuttering for the last 10 years and each year always hoping that it will dissapear, till...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2017
2 points

I guess that's the main problem for me, during my school years I had it mild, and I know what it feels like to have days to be fluent, but even with it mild, if I blocked in any conversation that emba...

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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2017
3 points

My story is very similar to yours. Im 28 now, and still have a severe block stutter. In all honesty, life feels stale. The only thing that keeps me going and keeps me "sane" is my son. Ive been stut...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2017
3 points

Please don't take my post as I am hard done by from this, or I am complaining. I have read a lot of posts from you guys here and some stuff this sub has been through has been crazy which I am so proud...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2017
1 points

Shame this is getting downvoted. Might be tough love but I feel the same. It's self-defeating, victim mentality. Had to come to the same realization myself growing up. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2017
3 points

I wish my parents could understand it. I made peace with my stuttering a long time ago, but they keep pushing me to go to different therapies until I get completely rid of stutter. I know they want th...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2017
1 points

Thanks for the inspirational words. Can I ask what those expectations are that you mentioned? It sounds like you recognized that you were capable of more than pushing carts, I feel the same way. The f...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2017
1 points

You clearly have a confidence that I don't have. I've tried so many times to pretend to be confident and sure of myself. Then with each successive stutter that confidence fades away to where I present...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2017
4 points

That sounds about right. Man, sometimes I think about how better my life would be without stuttering....

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2017
15 points

How do I fix stuttering and loneliness?

How do I fix stuttering and loneliness? Hello, I am new to r/stutter, I have a severe stutter I've had since I was able to speak. I am almost 19, have already gotten out of high school. I am talking w...

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postr/StutterMar 7, 2017
23 points

Got stopped by police, they asked me some questions, i stuttered on every word.

Got stopped by police, they asked me some questions, i stuttered on every word. Note: i'm writing this an hour after it happened. So every night my mom finishes her work late at night and it's dangero...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
4 points

Get used to people calling you retarded and or judging you on your stutter dude. The only way society accepts us is if we take it on the chin. This means having thicker skin to humiliation, judgement,...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2017
3 points

The biggest reason many treatment programs are not very effective is because they don't treat the mental aspect of stuttering (well enough). When they underlying feelings of anxiety, shame, frustratio...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
14 points

I'm sure this isn't for everybody, but I'll share what I've been doing in life. I've completely given up trying to be social. I still see friends every now and again but it isn't a large part of my l...

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postr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
14 points

Stammer getting unbearable

Stammer getting unbearable Hello, In the last 5 years or so my stammer has made my life so difficult. When I was younger I would have described it as a serious problem, but as I have gotten older it h...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2017
1 points

I really suggest reading around on this sub, because you'll find many people discuss the tolls it takes in their daily lives. Those of us that struggle with mental health issues find that that it may ...

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