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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2020
3 points

it's understandable that you feel this way, but i feel like,, i'm not sure how to phrase it lightly, but it seems like you have toxic masculinity in you because you think stuttering is a form of weakn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
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postr/StutterNov 10, 2020
0 points

stutter -vulnerability

stutter -vulnerability I would like to be able to be and be seen as a badass, a strong man, not a person that has it hard to finish a sentence. I can't stand the fact that stutter might make other peo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2020
2 points

Hiya! I’m hoping sharing a bit of my experiences and story could help you out a little bit for your video. Since there’s no exact response you’re looking for I’ll just spitball so unique experiences...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2020
2 points

People who stutter (PWS) aren't monoliths so take your cue from him. Does he flinch or look annoyed when he stutters, or does he just roll with it? If he seems unflustered, chances are good that he's ...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2020
1 points

I always try to not let my stutter define me. And i try to dont give a fuck about what people think. So so many people thought i was weird or smth was wrong with me but we must not Let it change the w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2020
4 points

I've look this up for myself. Never been told about one. I've usually kept my stutter to myself even though it's obvious, so I guess people choose to ignore it. I've resolved to be upfront about it fr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2020
1 points

How did u feel about it ? I mean stuttering in public...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2020
2 points

Delighted to hear that speech therapy is working. Again, it depends on the person, but I probably wouldn't bring it up if they didn't. If they're self conscious about it they may start over thinking...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2020
1 points

You don’t know why you have stopped seeing the stutter at work. May be masking or avoiding or just natural ebbs and flows of a stutter. Plus you don’t know how they feel about their stutter. so all i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2020
3 points

Be good to hear others opinions on this. I think it depends on the person. Maybe if it was very obvious and they worked hard at it then it might be appropriate. My stutter got a lot better when I wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2020
1 points

Yep I totally considered this. Went to ASL classes as a child too. I totally get it. Talking is frustrating sometimes and there are days that I just don’t....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2020
2 points

I go nonverbal sometimes so I've taught myself enough that whoever's trying to get me to talk might think I'm hoh and back off. My big fear is the day the other person will actually know sl and they t...

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postr/StutterNov 7, 2020
3 points

When you order something nasty at a restaurant.

When you order something nasty at a restaurant. When you want the double bacon cheeseburger but you can't say "b", so you say club salad....

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2020
2 points

Yeah, lots of stutterers report being able to circumvent (more or less) stuttering by pretending to be someone else, or performing so far outside of normal personality that it feels like being someone...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2020
2 points

100% agree, when I slip up in front of people I am hard on myself. I tend to double down and start talking excessively being extra careful to take no risks with works that contain letter combos I blo...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2020
2 points

Ill be completely honest, everything i do to help myself i had to figure out on my own. Ive developed my own ways of covertly stuttering that allows me to talk semi fluent. My only issue now is blocki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2020
4 points

Yup, if its just for me to listen to i dint have an issue but when it is for someone else i start blocking...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2020
1 points

I relate to you. What I would do is anytime when giving a presentation or anything like that, say in a professional manner that you "speak with a stutter" so "please bear with you". I'm 28 so a bit ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterNov 2, 2020
2 points

Advice to overcome blocking?

Advice to overcome blocking? hey everyone, i've been stuttering for quite a few years now and have always seemed to have a problem with blocking. the only ways i can get some words out is by swearing,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterNov 2, 2020
9 points

I am overthinking my stutter, AGAIN

I am overthinking my stutter, AGAIN Hello! I am 21 years old and I stutter. I have stuttered for a long long time. When growing up I always thought it would go away or at least it would get much bette...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more