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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2020
1 points

It’s more that he anticipates he will stutter and will just stop talking. It definitely has a much bigger impact on communication effectiveness because people who do this don’t quite finish their sent...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2020
2 points

He didn’t. He uses techniques to reduce it. It’s called covert stuttering. If you listen to him carefully, as a stutterer, you’ll be able to catch it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2020
6 points

One of my husband’s good friends is a high school English teacher who stutters. He’s been teaching for years. On the first day of class he writes “I have a stutter” on the whiteboard and that’s it. He...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2020
19 points

What you see are a lot of carefully planned speeches. He rehearses his speeches and comments a lot and intentionally picks words or phrases that are easier for him. If you watch him, a lot of his paus...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2020
1 points

I can’t say my name. I just gave up on trying and bring a name tag on my books and walk up to them and show them my name....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2020
1 points

I can understand that , thank you for the insight. It just always feels like there’s a magnifying glass on me whenever I speak...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2020
3 points

As customers, we aren't the most memorable things to the employee. When I was a cashier I pretty much immedieatly forgot the customer once they left, unless they were rude or creepy (or did something ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2020
1 points

I feel the same too. My method is that when I need to buy something specific, I just show the seller a picture on my phone and just say "hello, I'm looking for this". So much easier than explaining wh...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterNov 13, 2020
13 points

Should I disclose my stutter in a job interview?

Should I disclose my stutter in a job interview? I have a interview for a fast food restaurant in a few days, and I'm reasonably confident that I will get the job. My stutter is incredibly inconsist...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2020
1 points

Thanks for your reply My class is fine, so much better than the one from the last school. I almost never got any unpleasant commentaries from them. But it happened sometimes, and several of them maki...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterNov 13, 2020
44 points

I'm tired of this

I'm tired of this Hi, this is my first post here, but I’ve been reading your posts for a long time. I’m a 19 years old boy and I’m tired of it all. I wish I could function normally, but I’m not abl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
postr/StutterNov 13, 2020
41 points

I realized something today

I realized something today Hey guys I’m Vishal and I’m from the United State. I’m 20 years old in college. I’ve been stuttering as long as I can remember honestly. And I don’t know if this applies to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2020
1 points

As well as focusing on the speech therapy aspect, work on (or refer your students) to a therapist. Stutterers often face a daily level of terror and anxiety about stuttering. Honestly I feel sometimes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2020
5 points

When I look at back my childhood I now see I never spoke to anybody because I was embarrassed of my stutter. I was never bullied bad but I was just to embarrassed to even say a word to people. Because...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 11, 2020
18 points

My stuttering wont stop getting worse Rant.

My stuttering wont stop getting worse Rant. I'm new here but I thought it would be alright for me to share what going on with my stuttering. Its definitely not as bad as some of the other people on he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterNov 11, 2020
55 points

Outburst of a stutterer

Outburst of a stutterer Hi. I'm 26 years old stutterer and this post is like a relief of pain for me. I always felt in disadvantage in comparison to other people. Like, in school there were so many ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2020
2 points

Oh, I totally do not make eye contact when I talk to people. I can usually get as far as looking in their direction or looking at their forehead, but I look down a LOT. I don't know how much of it i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2020
2 points

Yes haha this used to be a big thing for me. Avoiding eye contact. Makes it harder to connect with people though and is almost disrespectful at times. Its the tension that is caused by holding eye...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2020
2 points

Lettuce was always the hardest for me a subway too lol. It comes complete sense. You don't stutter when you are by yourself, nor do you stutter when you talk alone with animals. But as soon as a h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2020
2 points

Same for me. It's the only situation where it's clear that they're there to listen to me. In all other cases I feel inferior to the one I talk to. Probably more than i ought to....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment