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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
1 points

This is why sometimes I order online. Give them a name I can pronounce (I stutter on my name ALL THE TIME), or I just spell out my name if I forgot to change it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
3 points

I fumbled throughout was some blockage but It wasn’t as bad, my nerves kinda settled a minute in. I volunteered to go first to just get it out the way. Afterwards I felt relief and wishing that I coul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
4 points

I experience this as well especially with words beginning with vowels. You stammer on specific words because you always have a bad experience while pronouncing those words. You have to create good exp...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
1 points

I just found out this is what it's called. I HATE phone calls. There's the awkward silence and then they start talking when you finally get the word out and now you have to repeat it. It's a whole wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
10 points

I am a physics PhD student. I present scientific studies at conferences and internal meetings consistently. You’ve got to get used to the weird looks and others being uncomfortable. I would say the bi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
5 points

I've done the exact opposite I've avoiding stuttering I absolutely do not push thru blocks. This has greatly improved my fluency over the past year. But yes I agree you shouldn't feel ashamed because ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
2 points

Sorry about that. During my training school for my first job as a banker, we were given a research and presentation to do. We were 5 in my group. I basically did the bulk of the research and did the s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/stuttertalkApr 23, 2024
1 points

Menu

Menu How many of us have ordered something they really didn’t want because it was easier to say than what we really wanted. I wanted a buffalo chicken sandwich but I knew I was gonna have a real hard...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
10 points

I self taught myself programming and then took online gigs only communicating via email or Skype messaging. I was doing alright but we had a kid so I looked for a more reliable job. Got a role as a pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
5 points

AI-bot: "Sorry I didn't quite get that, can you repeat your sentence please." Me: \*Pressured more to speak fluently, which results in more stuttering\* Above will loop in ∞. Self-service ordering...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
2 points

God dammit! These last several months, I finally overcame my lifelong struggle with ordering at a drive through and have been happily ordering fluently. New challenger enters the arena, I guess....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
1 points

How bad is your stutter that requires you to be “non-verbal” and using an app to communicate? In my opinion, doing this won’t help you at all in the long run....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

UPDATE: Well, my teacher did answer my email and I disclosed it with her but I got no response lmao. My tutor supposedly was going to email her too, I don't know if she did, but knowing her she wouldn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 23, 2024
17 points

Note to stutters in their 20s who substitute words because the fear of stuttering.

Note to stutters in their 20s who substitute words because the fear of stuttering. For a long time, I used to try and hide my stutter by swapping words or changing how I said things on the spot. It wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

It sucks some technical words can't be swapped out you do have to stutter through it. Police officers can't swap out words in the Miranda rights and lawyers have to use specific words. I use to stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
2 points

For me, just adopt my strength (more patient and focus on my thing) and avoid the drawback (stutter when talk to strangers or people with inconsistent value). The backend position in tech company or b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

I won’t lie bro, for personal experience, me n u got the same type of stuttering. I’m 20 at the time of writing this. When I was your age I would hide and distance myself from potential friendships or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

Ugh, high school presentations were the worst. I stuttered on the word “murderer” (cannot remember the topic) and my group told me that I can’t do that....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
6 points

Hey man. I had a horrible stutter in school. And I never thought I’d get a girlfriend. My first girl was someone whose first conversation with me was telling me how she disliked the girls in school wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

I actually like it when people try to finish my sentence especially when the block gets too long. You know.. I just wanna get it over with, so when they finish it, I can just then proceed to whatever ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions